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My boyfriends ex girlfriend was supposed to visit him tonight, cause they wanna watch a series they talked about watching since they were together. She was supposed to be there around 21-22 (9-10 pm), and now when she hadn’t showed up yet (it’s 23:30 here), he called her and she said she would come much later (like at 1 am).

…. Gurl, ain’t that low key weird that she would come by so late - like middle of the night late. She knows he’s in a new relationship

(I posted earlier about my boyfriend and I might be doing non-monogamy, but it’s still in its early stages and not something the ex knows about)

My boyfriend just canceled ofc

UPDATE: thank you for all your advice and comments. Advice is no longer needed for now:) good evening to everyone <3

I (f22) and my fairly new boyfriend (m22) are doing some form of open relationship (open on his side only)

In my past relationship I had an open relationship too, on my side only, since my partner weren’t comfortable with sexual intimacy at all. I enjoyed the freedom and my current boyfriend started out as a fwb.

He’s told me the night we first met, he was supposed to meet up with his ex girlfriend, but she forgot, and instead we ended up texting and meeting up. He has expressed that he’s into monogamy but also that he’s still attracted to his ex and would like to have sex with her again.

Maybe I’m just being stupid, but since I’ve tried being with other people than my (ex) partner without involving any feelings, I thought that it would be fine for my new partner to do the same. He doesn’t want to “share” me though. He says that he’s scared his view on sex with me would change if I was with someone else, but he doesn’t have that fear for it happening to himself.

He’s gonna meet up with his ex tonight for some Netflix and, in his words, “hopefully chill”.

I don’t know if I’m being stupid for not stopping it. He had made it clear that I can stop it at any point - but I don’t want a life filled with insecurity/jealousy, but rather feel secure that we can be together even if he’s sexual with someone else.

I’ve always been confused to why sexual acts should be limited to one partner only, since the emotional aspect is whats most important to me.

Please share your thoughts

Note: my current boyfriend isn’t the reason for the breakup with my last partner. Things just weren’t meant to be anymore, though the timing might make it seem otherwise.

EDIT: Little thing to add: we write with another women/men/couples on online sites “for fun”. We both find this enticing.

I also find the idea of him being with another woman very hot (and a little sad too), and like the fantasy of him being a player.
Maybe doing a ffm with him too, which neither of us have done before

EDIT 2: I might have a bit of a “cuck” kink for myself. It turns me on a lot when he talks about past sexual experiences

EDIT 3: Maybe I just need someone to tell me that it’ll all be fine - that he won’t end up getting feelings for his ex, or that jealousy will eat me up, and that we can be in an untraditional relationship. I definitely do not want to be in a traditional relationship at all, I want us to be able to make our own rules and say f society.

I’m alone at the rose today (Friday)

I’d like to see Addison Rae and JENNIE (I'm a big K-pop fan)

Anyone wanna hang out and chill/party together?
F22 *eller gruppe jeg kan joine:)