My husband won't go down on me
My husband won't go down on me. He says it's "not his thing", but it definitely is my thing so it disappoints me and hurts my feelings. I've never hesitated to go down on him for as long as we have been together, and when I remind him of that he simply asks me less often to do it for him lol. As a woman it's not always easy to "finish" and that's what would 100% do it for me. I'm a pretty sexual person, but the lack of doing what I want and need has me feeling frustrated and not wanting to have sex at all because I feel pathetic having to ask every time we have sex and it never happening. I feel like I've expressed it so much that he should know it's what I want and just do it. It's also hard when I hear other people talk about how their man goes down on them. I just wish he WANTED to.
I don't know what to do anymore. Any advice?
tl;dr husband won't go down on me regardless of me repeatedly asking. Affecting sex life and confidence.