u/Cannagrowlife_251816

How do I pick up the pieces?

Hello, this is my first post here. A little background, I am 35, my mom passed away the day before my birthday this year back in June. She had called me 5 days prior and told me she had a stomach ache and asked if I could bring her to the ER. I brought her in, which turned into a very traumatic experience because she started to have miniature strokes, and could barely talk, the last words she managed to say were "I love you" which looking back is amazing to me and means the world. By that evening, she was non responsive, I was told she had blood on her brain and they wanted to stabilize her over night so I should go home and come back the next day. I went home for the night and came back the next day thinking there might be a positive update, but when I spoke to the doctors they told me she had heavy bleeding around the Thalamus, and she would never wake up or speak again. She had named me the medical power of attorney, so I ultimately had to make the decision to pull her off of life support and let her go. I am an only child, and my parents divorced when I was 2 years old, so really it was just her and I until I got married and moved out. She had no will, no funeral planned, no executor named, nothing. I have spent the past few months doing what I think she would have wanted as far as memorial services, burial, etc is concerned and going through the probate process with the courts. I have been doing all of this, while still being the sole provider for my wife, 2 kids, and my mother in law who is in poor health that lives with us. I am doing my best to hold myself together, but I still have random episodes of grief, crying, etc. I am really just wondering if it ever gets easier, and if I am doing right by her. I am struggling with getting her house cleaned and going through all of her old things. I at least have the letters of Administration now from the state and an estate account set up and have been paying all of the necessary bills for her house. I am also working on getting the probate deed filed as well as getting her vehicle transfered into my name. I have not used an attorney for any of this either, I am doing it all by myself. I am struggling with picking up all of the pieces after all of this, I do not know what to do next, and I wish she was still here every day. I just keep thinking I need to stay strong for my wife and kids, but I almost feel lost without having my mom around. I used to call her for advice or just to vent, now I just keep it all bottled up inside.

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u/Cannagrowlife_251816 — 12 days ago

Stay away from SkyCoach.

I received a lifetime ban after using their services for the first time. I also paid extra for the fastest time to complete the order, which still took almost 8 days to complete. The "Pro" would do one part, then say they were going to go have lunch, but then would not be back on until over 24 hours later. When the "Pro" was completing the order, I could also tell they were cheating by using a net limiter. I could tell because the content I had asked to be completed would take them only 5 minutes of actual game play for an entire end game raid that normally would take 2 hours or more, and they would have only 4 kills or less for the entire raid. Then they would get off until the next day. I contacted customer support and said I didn't trust what I was seeing and that I was afraid my account would be banned and to get the PRO off of my account and assign a new one if the current one was going to cheat. The customer service representative told me not to worry about it, that they weren't going to switch the Pro and everything would be fine. A week after my order was marked as complete, my account was permanently banned for using a net limiter. I asked support for a refund being I spent a little over $400 on the order. The most they have offered is an $80 credit toward other services they offer. They said that once an order is marked as completed in their system, they are no longer allowed to give refunds due to the company policy. So, be very weary of using SkyCoach and their services. It is highly likely you will have your account banned and you will never see a refund, the order will also take a long time to be completed, even if you pay the extra fee for "lightning speed", or whatever it is they call that upcharge. Just stay away from them for your own peace of mind.

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u/Cannagrowlife_251816 — 12 days ago