u/Capricorn_shark

I F(23) just accidentally told my mom how my ex gave me a black eye. (Towards the end of our relationship) I never wanted to tell her but so much is happening in my life right now that it just came out when I was ranting.
When I told her she just stood quiet. Looked mad, hurt , upset and like she wanted to cry…I feel bad because my mom was in abusive relationship with my bio dad and an ex boyfriend of hers.
She never wanted me to get hurt . She always told me “we don’t hit and we don’t get hit.“ and I got hit and never told her or anyone actually. I would try to cover it up or just make up an excuse .
I feel so bad because I’m an only child, the first born and my dad wasn’t in my life. It’s always been me and my mom and I usually tell her everything…but my relationship I never told me all the shitty things that happened to me.

Hi so I’m 23 and I have a bartholin cyst since mid February (currently early may as I write this) . It’s about the size of a large grape. It doesn’t hurt or feel tender . It’s just a small ball there. I have done sitz baths, turmeric mixed with coconut oil, hot compressions and even tried massaging it. It does drain and have gotten pretty small but then it goes back to grape size. Is there anything else i can do?
Like I said it will drain and almost be gone but then go back to grape size. It doesn’t hurt or smell. Literally just a grape down there . It also doesn’t hurt when I have sex .
Do i just leave it? Do i go to my gyno? Do I go to the ER? Any other home remedies I should try?
Advice please!

Hi so I’m 23 and I have a bartholin cyst since mid February (currently early may as I write this) . It’s about the size of a large grape. It doesn’t hurt or feel tender . It’s just a small ball there. I have done sitz baths, turmeric mixed with coconut oil, hot compressions and even tried massaging it. It does drain and have gotten pretty small but then it goes back to grape size. Is there anything else i can do?
Like I said it will drain and almost be gone but then go back to grape size. It doesn’t hurt or smell. Literally just a grape down there . It also doesn’t hurt when I have sex .
Do i just leave it? Do i go to my gyno? Do I go to the ER? Any other home remedies I should try?
Advice please!