u/Careless-Phase-6603

Im in Australia and ive been trying to find a single match for the past week, changing servers and everything, not a single match

hey guys this my first post here just need some advice and womans perspective.

context: i matched with this girl on tinder shes really hot and **key point she lives in the same building on the floor above me. she came over a couple times we did quite alot of stuff just not all the way, she liked it alot. and i do like her company alot now im wondering if shes losing interest, first off we barely text or should i say she barely texts me and im pretty sure leaves me on delivered considering everyone is on their phones nowadays.**
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**no, I’ve treated her pretty good. I’ve been nice and all of that which I think is a problem and let me explain why, her past is the complete opposite of what I am.**

**She comes from basically a drug life she just got out of a abusive relationship. She’s getting a restraining order on her ex who is a drug dealer I think you get the gist.**

**Me on the other hand I’m literally just a normal university student which I think isn’t her thing because even though we’ve done stuff and she’s liked it. She did say that “ drug dealers are sexual attraction “ which I personally don’t understand**

**Now she just texted me saying “ I'm gonna be so busy with study for the next few weeks and I won't be able to see people”**

**no, I think this is a complete lie considering the fact that she lives a floor right above me and she can see me literally in two minutes .**

**Just tell me what you guys think** **Do I need to start being toxic or what** **maybe I’m overthinking it. I don’t fucking know. But I do like her and she’s hot. I’m not looking to date her. It’s just her proximity and attractiveness makes her seem good to me.**

this shit is ruining my life honestly. It’s 8 pm right now and I’m typing this because I’m so annoyed. I’m 21. I’m perfectly healthy. I work out four times a week. I take care of my health. I don’t drink. I don’t smoke. I don’t do anything.

And I match with this girl from Tinder she literally lives on the floor above me so I could see her a lot and I did see her like four times in the spam of a couple of days but every single time I just can’t get hard I don’t fucking know what the issue is and I just lied to her saying I’m taking some medication that’s lowering my libido but the reality is I don’t know what the fuck is wrong with my dick.

I tried to bullshit and make out with her and use my fingers and eat her and some toys which she seemed to really like and I did that a couple times and she’s like begging me to fuck her and I want to. its been a couple days after all that happened and I honestly think she’s losing interest just because she can’t have it because of my fucking broken dick