u/CarelessMuscle7902

26 M | Looking for someone genuine

Giving this another try…

26M, 6ft, working, life is sorted on paper but somehow still feels like something is missing. Not into dating apps anymore too much effort for zero clarity.

About me (trying to be honest, not perfect):

Introvert mostly, but I can talk a lot if I feel comfortable

Overthinker sometimes...

I like quiet plans, long walks > loud parties

Can be a bit moody but also very caring once I’m invested

Career matters to me but I don’t want my whole life to just be work

I’m looking for (and I know this sounds basic but apparently it’s rare):

Someone genuine,

Someone who actually replies and doesn’t disappear for 2 days and comes back like nothing happened

Emotionally available,

Not here for timepass or “let’s see where it goes”

Around my age (22–27)

Not expecting perfection, just consistency and basic respect.

Dealbreakers:

Dry texting, no effort

People who say “I’m bad at texting” (no you’re just not interested)

Mixed signals… I don’t have the energy for that anymore.

If you text, please don’t just send “hi”. At least say something about yourself.

Not sure what I’m expecting from this, but yeah… let’s see.

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u/CarelessMuscle7902 — 2 days ago

26 [M4F] India - looking for someone genuine

I’ve been lurking here for a while and thought to post now.

26M, working, life is sorted on paper but somehow still feels like something is missing. Not into dating apps anymore too much effort for zero clarity.

About me (trying to be honest, not perfect):

Introvert mostly, but I can talk a lot if I feel comfortable

Overthinker sometimes...

I like quiet plans, long walks > loud parties

Can be a bit moody but also very caring once I’m invested

Career matters to me but I don’t want my whole life to just be work

I’m looking for (and I know this sounds basic but apparently it’s rare):

Someone genuine,

Someone who actually replies and doesn’t disappear for 2 days and comes back like nothing happened

Emotionally available,

Not here for timepass or “let’s see where it goes”

Around my age (22–27)

Not expecting perfection, just consistency and basic respect.

Dealbreakers:

Dry texting, no effort

People who say “I’m bad at texting” (no you’re just not interested)

Mixed signals… I don’t have the energy for that anymore.

If you text, please don’t just send “hi”. At least say something about yourself.

Not sure what I’m expecting from this, but yeah… let’s see.

reddit.com
u/CarelessMuscle7902 — 5 days ago