u/Carolinedixie6

Nanny Responsibilities

Nanny Responsibilities

OK, so the lady that I work for has had babysitters before, but she’s never had a Nanny before so I have kind of paved the way for her expectations of future nannies… and I’m getting nervous because - I think what I do for her is not industry standard. I’ve mentioned household managers to her and she’s said like “ugh I wish I had someone for that!” But I make online shopping returns for her, and literally whatever else she asks. When she was pregnant and “nesting” I was literally building her furniture…

For context, this is the list she gave me today - water the outdoor flowers, unload the dishwasher, reload the dishwasher, put away the boys laundry, (she has runners on her stairs so no one slips and she wants me to restick them with new stickers?), take out her trash and recycling, and empty the diaper pails.

The tasks I’m describing go above a nanny’s true role, correct, or am I delusional? This feels like one of those “light housekeeping” miscommunications.

u/Carolinedixie6 — 2 days ago
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Potty Training

Yall idk what to do. Background - I’ve been nannying this little boy for about two years and we’ve been potty training for I don’t know how many months. He’s turning three soon and we’ve gotten to the point where he has VERY minimal accidents and wears training underwear with me when I’m working. (He’s fighting me on the poop thing, but hey, that’s boys for you.) Mom just pulled me aside to touch base to ask if we should “hold off” on potty training because HE WON’T GO WITH HER? I’m FLABBERGASTED. I truly have no clue what to say. I told her the progress we’d made and reassured her that, in my opinion, (which I am confident she was genuinely asking for) we were safe to keep moving forward and that it would come to him. But I’m kind of freaking stumped because…?! The only thing I can think of is that I’m very stern with him in a way she isn’t usually. “We’re going to sit on the potty.” And if he says no, I make it fun, but we still do it. Going potty (at least building the habit of “trying” and sitting) is like a diaper change, there’s no choice about it. You know what I mean? Safety, food, hygiene, the nonnegotiables? What can I possibly say to her?

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u/Carolinedixie6 — 10 days ago

Yall I borrowed my gf MacBook for two days and now it’s tweaking out. It’s not turning on well… like I had to try to manually turn it on like ten times and it’s glitching and says this… now what!!!

u/Carolinedixie6 — 15 days ago
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Is this fair? I’ve never made a contract so please lmk!

“Either party may terminate the agreement with 14 days written notice media termination is permitted the event of misconduct, breach of contract, or safety concerns upon termination. The client agrees to compensation of a two week severance package totaling the amount of $1242.”

I arrived at that severance package by calculating two weeks at my hourly rate and expected weekly hours.

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u/Carolinedixie6 — 18 days ago