u/Casablanca194two

Hey everyone,

I finally received my invitation for picking up my urkunde. I wanted to ask people about their experience in Berlin. I know in Berlin it’s a simple process but I am just too nervous when I speak german and I didn’t have much practice recently. People who got their Urkunde in Berlin, how was your experience? Or anyone got their urkunde when they were not so confident about their German? (Referat s5)

Hey everyone,

I am 31 y old male with OCD diagnosis. My OCD more evident with health anxiety but it does exist in other stuff as well. Currently I am struggling positioning my ex girlfriend. We had on and off relationship and my only connection to her is instagram right now.

I am struggling to understand whether my feelings for her just my obsession with her or my love for her. I am honest to myself and I believe that it’s not fully obsession but love is part of my feelings as well, even though my love is not enough for our relationship to succeed.

Based on this, what to look for when differing love and obsession?

tl;dr I feel obsession and love for my ex girlfriend but can’t be sure if it’s more of love or obsession