u/Catsdrool

It seems that quite a few people are not getting any. I just wonder how hard you are trying. Are you doing what you did when you won her/him over? Try music, a nice dinner and maybe a favorite adult beverage. Look your best, try. They once wanted to have sex so maybe you need to seduce them like the old days. HRT helps for us and we both try to look as attractive as we can. Lose the gut if you have one. Get exercise together if possible. Dress better. Tell them you love them and desire them. Work at it. If my wife isn’t very horny and I want some then she tells me it is my job to get her in the mood and I love that part. It’s an all day, every day affair. Work at it people. I realize there are lots of other reasons but seducing your partner like you mean it can go a long way. Thoughts?

My wife just answered a question on another reddit. It asked what would you want more of sexually? She said thicker vaginal walls. Her Testerone is 560 and she wants to fuck all the time. Our local nudist club had a prom the other night and we had sex 3 times and then she woke me up at 4 in the morning for another round. Does this seem excessive or am I over thinking?

My wife and I just bought a nice little Class C and are considering going to some nude resorts in the PNW and maybe further. We have found the people lean to the nicer and more open side. We are not swingers but love the vibe and it makes our sex over the top. The dances do help but we just like hanging out as well. Nude dances can be over the top. Normal people dress up like slutty movie stars to dance the night away, well not all of the night. Our first one made us believers. Now we are thinking some hippy festivals might give us a bit of the same vibe so we are looking for those. We have not been to burning man but our local nudist club is considering having a Nudestock this year. Any thoughts or suggestions?

When we got married my wife told me she always wanted to be my girlfriend as well but now she says “Sex Goddess” is more appropriate! I couldn’t agree more. When I read her this post before posting it she said I am bragging a bit. Maybe so but ain’t life grand? Anybody else have this experience?