u/Cautious-Orange259

please help… 6.5m old

please help… 6.5m old

baby is at daycare wed-fri so i don’t have much control over his naps those days..

his naps are all over the place no matter what i’ve tried. we aim for bedtime 6:30-7pm and he naturally wakes up 5:30-6:30am usually.

he has a feed to sleep association which is being a massive struggle to break. not interested in doing ferber or CIO, gentle training doesn’t seem to work either so far

night sleep is not continuous still 4-5+ wakes i just don’t log it.

pls help

sincerely,
a tired mummy

u/Cautious-Orange259 — 1 day ago

honest opinions please - planning baby #2

hi my partner and i absolutely love our baby & parenthood so far and we are thinking about having baby #2 before our wedding. start TTC maybe around august/sept this year.

we are getting married in april 2028, if we decide to have baby #2 and they are born on the back end of 2027 they will be around 6-9 months at wedding. and our son will be 2 years old.

so we will have 2 under 2 for a short time, which i know can be chaotic!! also worried about dress shopping as ill be freshly postpartum a year out from wedding!

just want to hear from your experiences if you have been in a similar situation, our honeymoon will be overseas and planning to take both children (once baby 2 is one year old)

or are we being silly and should wait until post wedding??

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u/Cautious-Orange259 — 4 days ago

for those who didn’t sleep train - when did your baby start going to sleep without sleep associations?

happy mother’s day mums!

baby is currently 6 months old. nursed to sleep because they scream when any other attempt.

how did you break the association and start getting them to sleep more independently? happy to stay present but it seems to frustrate more because baby wants milk/or to be held?

really want to stop cosleeping (we follow safe sleep practices) baby is rolling too much now and i want them to have their own space in cot so partner can start sleeping in bed with me again

don’t want to sleep train CIO/Ferber. have tried chair method and pick up/put down both didn’t work.. any tips will help! thank you :)

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u/Cautious-Orange259 — 12 days ago