u/Cautious_Eye_2923

So hey

uhm yeah I'm looking for a friend both genders apply

the said friends requirements

yapper

no sexual expectations

friendly or whatever we can be mean babes I don't mind

stays in Ruiru kimbo cause the transport cost is not my mate I can already tell you know where I stay

very business oriented I'm tired of relationship convos that sh*t is draining

low maintaince room for high maintaince when friendship is built.....that's all

PS:I'm also a yapper 😁, The economy and may month of viruses has me on edge so let's meet up and talk about it....I suck at text and calls that's my red flag so yeah we can talk but I promise you'll eventually get tired ....that's pretty much it

hey there can we please be besties......

This might sound weird, but I’ve been thinking about this for a while.

We always hear the story from the person who got cheated on the pain, the confusion, the “why me?” But we rarely hear from the other side in a real, honest way.

If you’ve ever cheated… what was actually going through your mind at the time? Like, not the polished answer, but the real one. Did you hesitate? Did you care in that moment? Or did it just… happen?

And when you got caught (if you did), what did you feel before you even started explaining yourself? Guilt? Fear? Relief? Or were you just trying to manage the situation?

I’m also curious about whether it’s always about something missing in the relationship, or if sometimes it’s just internal like boredom, ego, curiosity, whatever it is.

And for people who’ve been cheated on and later tried to understand it (or even ended up cheating back), what do you think was really going on underneath everything?

I’m not trying to justify cheating at all. I just feel like there’s a side of the story people don’t say out loud, and I want to understand it better.

before I forget wantam weuh nikubad with the way things are going tutakua online students/online working and all......anyway what are your thoughts

mods please 😕 you keep removing my post

I totally get it.....who has kids to keep a man...but I was young.......18 years of age ...most of all I was stupid....can I go back No!!!

now I'm here with my 2 year old.... going through the pits in my parents house....now my mums house since my dad left to start a new family.....

he only pays fees and I'm totally grateful while my mum does the rest.....the problem comes in when my mom completely throws me under the bus when my abusive sister hurts my child.....the abuse is so bad my child has nightmares

can I do anything about it sadly no....cause I have nowhere to go.....no Money....deadbeat bd......no relatives

I'm mentally drained

I have tried to think of a way out NOTHING

Im depressed as hell

I have failed my kid

what I'm I to do huh

mods always on my case

let this post be

I can't even sleep,

I need a way forward and I'd appreciate any and everything