Man says he love me after only 1week of talking and I’m his gf. Never met in person
He’s M/25 ,I’m F/22 so we don’t have huge age gap
We’ve been only talking for 1week.
I want to be very upfront with you I’m not falling into the bs this guys doing as u just don’t believe him not one bit. So we started talking last week conversation was dry over text but once taking in the phone it was a good conversation.
Now this guy doesn’t like that far from me. Roughly an 1-1hr in a half.
As the days go by the conversation seems to constantly get shifted to sexual topics like on purpose. Not me starting it but him constantly gotta drift to that way. The first day he ask if we can exclusively talk as he doesn’t want to check out his other options , but to me that seems like a red flag. Because most men now days are liars and would say anything to get what they truly want. Want him saying that I just took it with a grain of salt cause I don’t believe that. I could only just hope he’s exclusively talking to me.
But anyways. He literally call me “babe”, says he misses me all the time, how he’s excited to meet me. I’m his future wife and he’s choosing me and what not. All the love bombing bs.
And we haven’t met yet. He does works a demanding and long hour type job which he video chats with me and I see him working. But I feel if you are excited to see someone you’ll find some day out of the week to a least take them out on a date.
But he just works and works and no plans made yet.
He says I’m his gf ALREADY and that he love me 🤨. I don’t know how to respond to that besides keep reminding him WE HAVEN’T MET IN PERSON YET!!!.
I do believe he’s highly sexual motivated and don’t really love me or whatever. I do think he’s trying to love bomb me, I do think he’s excited to meet me but not end too much of a rush to see me because he’s trying to get my guard down early so if he makes sexual advances at me on the first date I’ll be ok with that because “he’s my bf not just a RANDOM man I’m on a date with”
I’m giving him a chance to plan a date and see how things go before blocking him as I do like him though. I just don’t trust him or trust his motives.
What do y’all think?