u/Ch1ckb1rd

Hi Titos and Titas,

Thanks to all those who confirmed and deposited their joining fees. Don't worry, your money is safe with me.

We have not received responses from some of the initial registrants, so we are reallocating their slots to those on our wait-list.

To our wait-listers:

We have sent you the offer messages via email, TG, or Reddit. You may now secure your slots by completing the payment using the QR code provided. Please deposit before August 22 and reply to my message with proof of deposit.

Paging (code name) Boom Bilyo - please DM me. I can't find you on TG or Reddit.

Other updates:

Program Flow - We have finalized the 3-hour program consisting of icebreakers, games, discussions, culminating activity, and socials.

Prizes - We are currently seeking sponsors for our prizes. Salamat u/hersoftglow !

Parking - There is a pay parking near the venue. Street parking is also available.

Dress code - There will be games (konting takbuhan) so wear something comfortable but still appropriate for the event.

KTV - the venue is equipped with state-of-the-art KTV equipment. Maganda yung room promise! 4 ang TV monitors and may mini stage for the program.

Food and drinks are part of the consumables. We will preorder food and drinks and serve them at different intervals para makapagparticipate ang lahat sa activity, at hindi muna malasing.

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FAQs

Q: Pwede bang manood lang? Ayoko kasing makipagdate.

A: Again, this event is NOT really a dating event. It's supposed to be a meet-up lang but we thought of incorporating a dating portion. Most activities focus on interacting with fellow participants and sharing thoughts about specific topics. At the end of the day, baka kabisado niyo na profile ng at least half of the participants. Hindi namin kayo ifoforce-match. Those who are not willing to participate in the dating portion may opt not to join.

Q: Pano kung gusto ko talagang makameet ng someone special on the event? If this is not a dating event, hindi ko maacchieve yun.

A: Baka kayo pa mapagod sa kakaikot at kakausap sa mga participants dun. There are task-based activities that will allow you to approach people, ask questions, share thoughts about topics, and maybe exchange socials if consensual.

Q: Lahat po ba ng magjojoin ay single?

A: No. It's a mix of people who just want to meet new friends (40%), people who want to meet new friends and are open to meeting potential partners (56%), and 4% are intentional seekers. Hindi kami nanghingi ng ID so we cannot validate the age and relationship status of the joiners. You can take your sweet time in getting to know the person before, you know, giving in. Matanda na tayo. Gamitin ang utak, wag lang puso.

Q: Ilang Titos and Titas ang magjojoin?

A: Based on the initial registration, 60% Titas and 40% Titos. Pero syempre, it will all depend on who will confirm their slots first. By experience, yung mga Tito ang mahirap/matagal magconfirm. Kung kelan last minute, saka magdDM ng "Can I still join?". Yung mga Titas pa ang mas buo ang loob.

Q: Pwede bang humabol?

A: Pwede naman but take note that the venue has limited seating capacity. Only paid participants and staff will be allowed to enter the room.

Q: Can we stay for KTV?

A: We booked the room for 4 hours to allow us 3 hours of program and 1 extra hour for KTV. Naisip ko rin magpa-KTV game. Dami kong pakulong naiisip, kulang ang isang araw haha.

Q: Yung hosts po ba kasama sa dating portion? Baka ma-upstage kami.

A: I will be hosting together with u/samr518 . Wag pong mag-alala. Hindi po kami makikipagkompetensya sa participants. Hahaha. Maharot lang kami sa sub pero hanggang doon lang. Taken na po kami...for granted. Charot!

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Yun lang for now. More info to be shared soon. FAQs to follow, may event pa kasi ako this weekend on top of my regular job.

Thank you. (Pasensya na if may grammar lapses. Wala akong energy mag proofread 😅)

Hi Titos/Titas,

We found a venue in Makati and we can accommodate a few more since the venue can hold up to 40 pax (up to 30 participants, 6 committee members, and 4 special guests 😂)

To those who confirmed their attendance, we have sent additional details including the QR code for payment.

To those who initially registered but have not replied to my email/messages, please check your inbox and confirm attendance on or before August 19. May six (6) titos/titas na tayo sa waitlist. Your slots will be given to them if we do not get a confirmation by the deadline.

To those waitlisted, please give us until August 19. We will allocate remaining slots to you. Priority to be given to people in their 40s and older (kasi nga po 40s sub po ito), pero if there are no other takers na, we’d be happy to offer the slots to under 40 na naka-waitlist.

Reminders:
- The joining fee is non-refundable and will be used to cover food, drinks, and venue rental for 4 hours.
- As much as possible, we plan to have an equal distribution of Tito and Tita participants. Ex. If a Tito backs out, we will try to replace with a waitlisted Tito.

More information to be shared soon. We’re drafting the FAQs, teasers, and event posters 🫶

Happy rainy Monday! Stay safe and dry, and happy!

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EDIT
Out of 23 initial registrants
- 11 confirmed (2 paid)
- 1 backed out (tito)
- 1 undecided
- 10 pending confirmation

Waitlist
More than 10 na. Since may nagback out na Tito, we will allocate his slot to another Tito on our waitlist (first come, first served).

Special invites
Those who received special invites before, please confirm if you can join so we can allocate the slots to others na super willing magjoin.

Thankie!

Sorry. Na-delete ko yung post ko. Hindi ko siya nacopy so here I am recalling what I wrote.

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To all Titos and Titas who initially registered for the event, please check your email, TG, and Reddit inboxes. I sent some updates and would like to confirm your attendance. If you remember signing up but did not get an email or a message from me, please DM me and provide the code name you entered when you signed up.

To all those who were not able to register on time, we'll reopen the registration once we have confirmed the attendance of those who initially signed-up and allocate reopened slots to our waitlisted participants.

To RED, Miss_Oh, and Benjoots - I can't find you on TG or Reddit. I also don't have your email addresses. Please DM me at baka iba maDM ko and maging organic encounter pa.

Thankie!

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Ito na mga Titos and Titas.

I'm creating the program flow na. Need some ideas (audience participation hehe).

What questions would you like to ask your fellow titos and titas sa event? Drop them in the comsec.

Ex.

1. What are your red/green flags?

2. What's the greatest life lesson your ex taught you?

3. If you were to see your ex today, what would you tell him/her?

SFW lang muna. Yung mga juicy questions, DM niyo na lang. Ififilter namin yung pwedeng itanong.

Salamuch!

Hi Titos and Titas,

It’s been raining for weeks. We hope everyone is safe and dry.

We’re still looking for a venue. Hindi lang makapag ocular survey dahil sa ulan. We will try this weekend.

Isa pa lang napupuntahan namin but it’s around QC. We’ll try to check some more spots this weekend if the weather permits.

Re: event fee - wala namang event fee pero to book a place that is needed to accommodate the number of participants and the type of event, we might need to pay a deposit or the full price to reserve the space. Initially, we thought of collecting around ₱500 each but after contacting the venues, baka around ₱800 each. We are also considering QC as an alternative location.

We will contact the registered participants individually to check if they’re still okay to join despite these changes. If they’re still down, we will ask for the advance payment. If not, we can give their slots to others and re-open the registration.

Heard the next few days/weeks will still be rainy. We’ll share updates as needed.

Thank you.

The mod team has removed posts from some people (and banned some accounts, too) who we think do not share the values of this subreddit.

While it is advertised as a platform to meet people and general rules are published as guide, there are some factors we consider when approving posts.

Ex.

1. We disapprove posts from members who may seem harmless at first, but upon further checking, we find out that they frequent NSFW subs that don’t align with the values and purpose of our subreddit (ex. Mga tambay sa swingers sub, alasjuicy sub, phgonewild, etc and explicitly looking for FUBUs, Uni/bull, swingers, etc). If you know these subs, you know what I mean.

Mods have access to hidden nsfw posts so even if they pretend to be looking for genuine connections but their previous posts say otherwise, we delete/ban. Those who send unsolicited/indecent proposals either by (but not limited to) posts, comments, DMs, and other forms, will also be banned.

Hindi kami KJ. We know we’re adults and should be mature enough to handle such people but as mods, we just want to protect the Titas and Titos of this sub. May ibang subs para sa tawag ng laman. Pwede po kayo dun tumambay at maghanap. Wag dito, please.

Bawal ang buwitre dito.

Plug ko lang ang isang katuwaan na nauwi sa bagong sub.

Disclaimer:

This is not a breakaway group. Kami kami lang din ito.
Since this sub is for meeting potential partners, we thought of creating a space where you can share about your exes naman.

Warning:
Hindi ito pwede sa mga taong ayaw ng drama sa buhay.
Para ito sa mga emo, yearners, heartbroken, and the like.

r/MyExPH

See you there!

I was out with some Titos and Titas last night. Over coffee, we chatted about the topic of sweet nothings and found ourselves arguing about talking stages and whether we should or should not say “Good morning/night”, “Kumain ka na ba?”, “Nakauwi ka na ba?”, etc.”

To some, these are just basic courtesies we used in chat conversations with people whom we’re not interested in. But for some, these words mean more. While not explicitly stated, these words may be misconstrued as the speaker being interested in the other party.

Kasi di ba? Hindi naman lahat ng kachat natin ginugood morning/night natin? Do you report to others kung paalis ka na or nakauwi ka na?, or kung ano OOTD mo? Do you ask kung nagbfast, lunch or dinner na sila, if they arrived home safe, kung naulanan ba sila, or nakainom na ng gamot if may sakit? For some women, nakakahulog kasi ng loob ito. Or sadyang marupok lang kami? 😜

Just today, a brave Tita confessed her feelings to a certain Tito but was rejected. All this time, she thought the guy was being sweet with her and fell for him. Apparently, this Tito was just being nice, and there’s nothing wrong with that. Sadly, there’s one lonely girl tonight.

Don’t be too nice, I might like you.
Don’t be too sweet, I might fall.
It’s hard for me to love you,
If you won’t love me after all.

Hi Titos and Titas,

I hope you are all well and safe this rainy week.

Reminders lang po to read our community guidelines. While we have moderators and concerned members who report violations, we may not be able to moderate every post and comments so we hope we will all be vigilant of the people we interact with on this subreddit and all other subs on Reddit.

We won’t be able to validate the identities and claims of all those who post. As adults, we hope we are able to discern the true intentions of people in this community, recognize the red flags, and stay away from people who exploit our vulnerabilities.

Let’s help each other in checking fake identities and exploitive agenda. You can message me/us if you want to know how or what to do in the initial stages of your ship-search (friendship, companionship, situationship, or relationship).

We do not promote infidelity and we do not promote hookups. If yun ang purpose niyo, wag na idamay ang mga inosente (katulad ko, charot).

Love,
Tito and Tita mods (wholesome yan, wag bigyan ng meaning)
😂

Reposting this dahil hindi daw nakikita ng mga Titos ang post.

Updates:

The form has been temporarily closed since we are limiting participants. We will reopen the form once we have confirmed the venue can accommodate more than 25 pax.

For questions, comment lang kayo. 🤭

Original post: https://www.reddit.com/r/TitosMeetTitas40s/s/3Xf8ckLEt2

Hi, Titos and Titas!

After 2 months, the 40s Foodies group is bringing it back!
Get ready to sweat, stretch, and dance with fellow kwarentahins!

When: July 31 (Friday)

Time: 8pm/9pm onwards, but you can come and leave anytime

Venue: The Studio Dance Club, Greenbelt 3

What to expect: Think modern Zumba, but with throwback playlists. Friday night is 90s-Y2K throwback party. You can expect a fun cardio workout led by in-house instructors you can dance with on stage or if you prefer to just groove right by your table, no worries. The studio is fully air-conditioned and offers an in-house menu of food and drinks. The vibe is all-inclusive with guests in their 20s to their 50s.

Budget: Entrance fee is ₱750 (plus ~10% S.C) consumable naman pero kahit di ka umorder, ₱750 pa rin 😅 Advanced payment is required to book a table. Yung 750 mo can buy a drink and a meal na. Cocktails are around 300-400, snacks would be around 200-500 depends on what you order.

Who can join:
Open to all beginner, intermediate, or advanced level dancers (We dance, but we don’t judge!)
- kahit sinong magaling or marunong sumayaw
- mga hindi magaling sumayaw
- mga gusto matutong sumayaw
- mga parehong kaliwa ang paa, gusto lang uminom-kumain-habang nanonood ng mga sumasayaw, nag-eenjoy makinig sa 90s-Y2K dance hits
- curious Tito/Tita na gusto lang nakaexperience nito
- mga gustong magpapawis
- 40s Titos and Titas (and anyone who can jive with us)

Bakit may ganito:
We did this the first time in May and we had fun so we want to do it again! This time, we’ll have a foodie meet muna for dinner before heading to the studio/club.

May minimum headcount ba?
Wala po. Kahit 3 lang magsign up itutuloy namin. Ganun po kami kaexcited sumayaw.

Dresscode:
Female - No slippers, No jersey
Male - No slippers, No jersey, No sando, No shorts

More info about the studio:
Check out the studio’s IG page. Search niyo na lang The Studio Dance Club.

How to join:
Comment here or DM me so I can add you sa aming foodie GC. Kung ayaw magpa-add, ok lang din. You can just get updates here sa comsec.

***Movie na may PLUS ONE(S)

Posting here in case anyone is interested. I’m in the same Movie Night GC with grapejuicecheese (the Tito who posted about Spiderman movie night).

We’re also thinking of seeing Odyssey. Thinking pa lang pero wala pa definite schedule because you know, we’re all busy. 🤭

Lemme know if anyone’s interested so we can add you sa GC. Or if ayaw mo maging part ng GC, DM na lang. I understand na it may be difficult to find a common free time due to our very busy schedules. If hindi talaga kaya, we can take a pass sa Odyssey and just meet on the 8th for Spiderman 🙂.

Or if kahit isa lang ang available, G naman. If a tito/tita can find another tito/tita to see the movie with, G lang din. Kahit kanya-kanyang gala na lang- Ok lang din. Just dropping it here in case may hindi pa nakakanood ng film and nahihiyang maghanap. This is your chance. Drop your thoughts below.

Edited:
Locked in na yung schedule
-July 26 (Sun) Gateway - 5pm/6pm show

3 pax confirmed as of now, puro kami girls. ☺️

Disclaimer:
Not looking for a date and hindi ako date-material.
I’m a wingman/woman type.
May kikay-mode, may tomboy-mode.
I’ve joined 6 official 40s sub meetups and a few personal ones with another redditor (buhay pa naman siya).

Dahil may nangumusta sa mga married men, kumustahin din natin ang mga married women. Para fair. 😅

Baka kasi magtampo. (If wala pang ganitong thread)

So kumusta ang married life, on a scale of 1 to 10, 10 being the highest. Hindi kelqngan i-justify pero feel free if comfortable kayo.

May seryosong tanong ako, pero wag niyo akong ibash. ✌️

Bilang nakakakilig yung recently nagshare ng lovestory dito.

May naccrushan ba kayo dito sa sub?

Naexperience niyo ba yung may nabasa kayong post or comment from someone tapos nasip niyo, parang okay ito.

Then you find yourself lurking in the same thread with that user and anticipating posts/comments from that user tapos excited kayong sumagot at mag-engage.

I know it’s weird since hindi magkakakilala, hindi nagkakakitaan, and what we see here may not be true at all in real life. But I think it’s possible. What do you think?

Note:

Idedelete ko rin ito pag walang gustong sumagot. 😂

Edit:

Hindi daw possible ang magkacrush dito. How about “Have you grown fond of someone despite anonymity”?

Also, hindi ko sinasabing may crush ako. Nagtatanong lang po.

May nagdodownvote. Wag daw tayo masyado maharot 🤣* *