Interest check:
Anyone up for a bowling game this Saturday?

Venue: Megamall
Time: 5pm onwards

No definite plans yet 😅 gusto ko lang magbowling. I’m from the East so sana yung within my area. May billiards and pingpong tables din so we can have other games after.

About me:
46-F-Pasig/Taytay

Bowling:
I learned bowling nung college as my first PE class (duck pins pa yun). 😅 Minsan nakakastrike, minsan kumakanal.

Billiards:
Marunong tumira kahit paano, pero di malakas.

Pingpong:
Zero skills

Disclaimer:
I didn’t use the Tita for Tito flair which means this is not a date invite. If maraming interested, we can go for a friendly group game.

EDITED:
SM Bowling doesn’t accept reservations. I’m looking at Studio 300 in Pioneer or Bridgetowne. Heads-up: Medyo may kamahalan. Max of 5 users per lane and min 2 hrs ang reservation. Papatak 900 - 1300 per pax for a group of 5 (Bridgetowne and Pioneer rates respectively).

Please consider this if you’re signing up as I might need to ask for advance payment to reserve. :)

Hi Titos/Titas,

We have tweaked the sub’s settings to require a few things before allowing posts. Posts may automatically be deleted if they do not meet the minimum 50-word requirement (body) or if the declared age falls below the expected range in this sub, and worse, if the user has NSFW tagging/history.

We encourage everyone to be intentional when posting and avoid low-effort posts (Ex. Looking for tito/tita to chat with at this hour blah blah blah).

Settings will continuously be modified to ensure we keep our sub safe for everyone. This may not be 100% foolproof, so feel free to reach out to the mod team should you encounter issues when posting and we’ll be happy to help.

Thanks to our Tito Figurine u/salawayun for looking out for us with his technical expertise. 🥰

And here’s our list of Tito Participants

Tito # 1️⃣- one of the moderators, Mr. Green flag #1, tahimik lang sa gedli kase may sakit, pinilit lang namin pumunta kasi wala kaming deck navigator, may service and chauffeur, true single pero gine-gatekeep namin, wala syang choice kungdi maging body guard namin nina Tita 1 and 3. Matino ito sobra, meron lang dalang OLO lagi. Lalo na nung GEB ng kwarentahin. Kanya po yun for educational purposes. Iykyk 😉

Tito #2️⃣- our newest moderator, Mr. Green flag #2, true single, introvert, nagdibs ako dito, kaya lang nafriendzone ako, kaya nagpaparaya na ako, hahahaha joke lang ✌️wag totohanin baka i-unfriend ako. Nafriendzone na, nafriendship over pa. 😅

Tito # 4️⃣- si Mr. Long hair na spokening dollar, lost siya during This or That, magaling magsharon, magaling din kumanta, ang tanong ko: sino pong bumoto sa kanya? Joke lang. I found out katrabaho ko pala. So I’ll be nice, baka ipa-HR ako. 😂 Close sila ni Tita #15, akala ko talaga mag-exz bagay naman sila. Bakit hindi na lang maging sila?

Tito #5️⃣- kung may Mr. Congeniality award, ito ang mananalo. Admin siya ng Movies GC. So if gusto niyo sumama sa movie nights namin, message niyo siya. Mahilig siya sa spicy food, kaya kumain siya ng chili oil to prove it, pasado naman, he also loves cats. Mahilig magbouldering. More than 50 lbs ang na-lose niya throughout his fitness journey. Next year, mapapa-Who You ka na dyan. Total make over with 6-pack abs.

Tito # 6️⃣- pagdating niya ang suplado, pero may hawak na transparent umbrella na may tag price pa, later on lumabas ang tunay na kulay, magaling magdribble, at magsayaw ng Ooh lala. Siya pala ang Titas’ favorite, ang “Pinili”. Codename: 2x a week. Wag niyo na tanungin kung ano ibig sabihin nun. NSFW eh. Muntik ko na nga siyang i-ban dahil sa R username niya. Mas lalong NSFW yun. Wag niyo nang itanong sa akin. Di ko rin naman sasabihin.

Tito #7️⃣- Napakatahimik nito sa gedli. Pero in the end, wala siyang choice but to dance with Tito #6. Dribble-dribble lang to the tune of Ooh lala dong-digidigidigi-dong. Ilang beses rin itong nag-offer ng seat para makakain ako. Salamat kay Tito. Hindi lang talaga ako mapirmi sa isang lugar. Di ko rin ito nainterview masyado. Magaling magtago. Bagay sila ni Tita #14.

Tito #9️⃣- ang tunay na lalaki, tumutupad sa usapan, and yes, tumupad siya sa promise niya. Nameet niya dito in person ang kanyang long lost chatmate. Nag-uwi ng Black Label as raffle prize, sayang kasi hindi pala siya umiinom. Ingglisero pala ito. Baon kayo mg maraming english. Pati emergency funds baka maubos.

Tito #🔟- from the land down under, may pa-abs sa TG account niya. Ready na siyang ipakita sa event, nadisappoint siguro kasi hindi namin pinilit. Towards the end of the event, nagsando na. Kahit man lang daw biceps maipakita niya. Next time na lang natin ipa-abs reveal, para 8-pack na.

Tito #1️⃣2️⃣- the youngest daw pero walang dalang ID kaya hindi mapatunayan. Natalo tuloy si Tito#8 sa human bingo. Sobrang kulit nito, hindi kayo patutulugin 😜 humuhugot din, na-friendzoned eh ✌️also, pahabol, tie pala sila ni Tito #10 sa
Main Character Energy award. Siya din yung nagsabi na pag naligaw daw siya using the instructions na binigay ko papuntang venue, sasakalin daw niya ako. Since nakarating naman siya, ako na lang sasakal sa kanya. Fair? 😅 joke lang

Tito #1️⃣3️⃣- late na dumating, nagswimming din ito sa Cavite, gusto akong paalisin sa condo unit ko para iparenta sa kanya, tulungan ko na maghanap ng unit sa Pasig para di na magswimming ulit, akala niya kasi last time ako magtotour sa kanya sa village, akala niya siguro leader ako ng bukas bahay gang and may susi ng lahat ng units.

“Weapon of Mass Distraction" Award - Tito #🔟
“Main Character Energy" Award - Tito #🔟 and Tito #1️⃣2️⃣
“Stand-Up & Stand-Out" Award - Tito #6️⃣
“Titas’ Favorite” Award - Tito #6️⃣

And there you have it. That’s all I remember.
We intentionally did not create a GC so you guys have the option to reveal your usernames and continue your interaction whether online or offline, at your discretion.

Lemme know if you need a wingman 😉

Revealing our Tita participants:
Joke lang. Hindi ko irereveal ang usernames nila. Bahala na sila magreveal sa comment section.

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Tita #1️⃣- our founder/financer, sponsor ng prizes/alak

Tita #2️⃣- yours truly, one of the crazy hosts, ako yung dancing host

Tita #3️⃣ - “Ang Pinili”, yung parang batang maliit na nagtatatalon sa harap, at may utang na consequence dahil natalo sa Tito, Tita, Takbo

Tita #4️⃣- my co-host, the laughing host, yung tawa nang tawa kay 2x a day

Tita #6️⃣ - one of the searchees, hindi man pinili ni Mr. Searcher, nacapture naman ang hearts ng iba, at last may winner na ng human bingo

Tita #7️⃣- ito yung pwedeng magpost sa “First Time Ko” sub, lahat firsts

Tita #9️⃣- ang natagpuan ang kanyang long lost chatmate, same number pa niya, parang meant to be

Tita #1️⃣3️⃣- nagswimming para lang makahabol sa event, nakapag after party pa, tinamaan, nakatulog, safe namang nakauwi

Tita #1️⃣4️⃣- pinakamagaling magtago, ayaw painterview, pero G sa afterparty

Tita #1️⃣5️⃣- ito talaga yung reyna ng after party, nilasing yung singer/performer sa afterparty, moderator ng kwarentahin sub na nang-invite sa inyo sa Halloween party

Tita #1️⃣7️⃣- ang ultimate na “Pinili”, at paulit-ulit na pipiliin, hakot awards

Tita #1️⃣8️⃣- yung consistent honor-student, tahimik, pero crush ng mga titos

Tita #2️⃣0️⃣- one of the searchees, muntik na manalo sa human bingo pero di pinalad, hindi man napili pero binoto ng majority of the titos

Tita #2️⃣1️⃣- special guest at sponsor ng special prize, happily married, patunay na pwede kang piliin araw-araw at nagsabing, “pag mahal ka ng isang tao, gagawa siya ng paraan para lalo mo siyang mahalin”

Tita #2️⃣2️⃣- ang tunay na babae, umiinom ng pale pilsen, astig ang mandala tattoo!

The special awards winners:

“Weapon of Mass Distraction" Award - Tita #1️⃣7️⃣
“Main Character Energy" Award - Tita #1️⃣7️⃣
“Stand-Up & Stand-Out" Award - Tita #1️⃣7️⃣
“Titos’ Favorite” Award - Tita #1️⃣7️⃣

🔹To follow yung Titos version.

Hi team.

We will push through despite the inclement weather.
According to weather forecasts, the rain will lighten up towards the evening.

While we understand that roads going to the venue may be flooded, Bagtikan street, where the venue is on, remains flood free and accessible.

Unfortunately, we can no longer cancel the event. Our deposit is non-refundable and we have made an advance order of food yesterday.

Tuloy po tayo. Ingat na lang po sa mga pupunta.
Pwede pong humabol na lang. Our reservation is until 10pm.

Stay safe everyone!

Thank you!

To all participants joining the even tomorrow:

Please be reminded of our Decency & Trustworthiness rule. Since the meet-up is an official event of this sub, the guidelines in this sub extend to the event. Due process will apply to any reported cases of violations to give the alleged an opportunity to be heard and allow him/her to convince the moderators why a ban should not be imposed. A ban follows once allegation is proven true or if the mod team deems it appropriate.

Please report any violations to the moderators. Four (4) out of five (5) moderators will be at the event tomorrow. Please approach us in case you feel unsafe with any of the participants. Let's all be vigilant and let's protect each other!

Thank you and see you tomorrow.

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​EDITED:

Slots update as of August 27, 7AM

29 paid participants (17 Titas and 12 Titos)

5 committee members (4 Titas and 1 Tito)

1 reserved slot c/o Ch1ckb1rd (1 Tito)

3 slots under discussion - to be released by noon if no payment received

REGISTRATION CLOSED!!!

No walk-ins!

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Please refer to Status Update #5 for more information:

https://www.reddit.com/r/TitosMeetTitas40s/s/tAY9oxBsez

Hi Titos and Titas,

Thanks to all those who confirmed and deposited their joining fees. Don't worry, your money is safe with me.

We have not received responses from some of the initial registrants, so we are reallocating their slots to those on our wait-list.

To our wait-listers:

We have sent you the offer messages via email, TG, or Reddit. You may now secure your slots by completing the payment using the QR code provided. Please deposit before August 22 and reply to my message with proof of deposit.

Paging (code name) Boom Bilyo - please DM me. I can't find you on TG or Reddit.

Other updates:

Program Flow - We have finalized the 3-hour program consisting of icebreakers, games, discussions, culminating activity, and socials.

Prizes - We are currently seeking sponsors for our prizes. Salamat u/hersoftglow !

Parking - There is a pay parking near the venue. Street parking is also available.

Dress code - There will be games (konting takbuhan) so wear something comfortable but still appropriate for the event.

KTV - the venue is equipped with state-of-the-art KTV equipment. Maganda yung room promise! 4 ang TV monitors and may mini stage for the program.

Food and drinks are part of the consumables. We will preorder food and drinks and serve them at different intervals para makapagparticipate ang lahat sa activity, at hindi muna malasing.

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FAQs

Q: Pwede bang manood lang? Ayoko kasing makipagdate.

A: Again, this event is NOT really a dating event. It's supposed to be a meet-up lang but we thought of incorporating a dating portion. Most activities focus on interacting with fellow participants and sharing thoughts about specific topics. At the end of the day, baka kabisado niyo na profile ng at least half of the participants. Hindi namin kayo ifoforce-match. Those who are not willing to participate in the dating portion may opt not to join.

Q: Pano kung gusto ko talagang makameet ng someone special on the event? If this is not a dating event, hindi ko maacchieve yun.

A: Baka kayo pa mapagod sa kakaikot at kakausap sa mga participants dun. There are task-based activities that will allow you to approach people, ask questions, share thoughts about topics, and maybe exchange socials if consensual.

Q: Lahat po ba ng magjojoin ay single?

A: No. It's a mix of people who just want to meet new friends (40%), people who want to meet new friends and are open to meeting potential partners (56%), and 4% are intentional seekers. Hindi kami nanghingi ng ID so we cannot validate the age and relationship status of the joiners. You can take your sweet time in getting to know the person before, you know, giving in. Matanda na tayo. Gamitin ang utak, wag lang puso.

Q: Ilang Titos and Titas ang magjojoin?

A: Based on the initial registration, 60% Titas and 40% Titos. Pero syempre, it will all depend on who will confirm their slots first. By experience, yung mga Tito ang mahirap/matagal magconfirm. Kung kelan last minute, saka magdDM ng "Can I still join?". Yung mga Titas pa ang mas buo ang loob.

Q: Pwede bang humabol?

A: Pwede naman but take note that the venue has limited seating capacity. Only paid participants and staff will be allowed to enter the room.

Q: Can we stay for KTV?

A: We booked the room for 4 hours to allow us 3 hours of program and 1 extra hour for KTV. Naisip ko rin magpa-KTV game. Dami kong pakulong naiisip, kulang ang isang araw haha.

Q: Yung hosts po ba kasama sa dating portion? Baka ma-upstage kami.

A: I will be hosting together with u/samr518 . Wag pong mag-alala. Hindi po kami makikipagkompetensya sa participants. Hahaha. Maharot lang kami sa sub pero hanggang doon lang. Taken na po kami...for granted. Charot!

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Yun lang for now. More info to be shared soon. FAQs to follow, may event pa kasi ako this weekend on top of my regular job.

Thank you. (Pasensya na if may grammar lapses. Wala akong energy mag proofread 😅)

Hi Titos/Titas,

We found a venue in Makati and we can accommodate a few more since the venue can hold up to 40 pax (up to 30 participants, 6 committee members, and 4 special guests 😂)

To those who confirmed their attendance, we have sent additional details including the QR code for payment.

To those who initially registered but have not replied to my email/messages, please check your inbox and confirm attendance on or before August 19. May six (6) titos/titas na tayo sa waitlist. Your slots will be given to them if we do not get a confirmation by the deadline.

To those waitlisted, please give us until August 19. We will allocate remaining slots to you. Priority to be given to people in their 40s and older (kasi nga po 40s sub po ito), pero if there are no other takers na, we’d be happy to offer the slots to under 40 na naka-waitlist.

Reminders:
- The joining fee is non-refundable and will be used to cover food, drinks, and venue rental for 4 hours.
- As much as possible, we plan to have an equal distribution of Tito and Tita participants. Ex. If a Tito backs out, we will try to replace with a waitlisted Tito.

More information to be shared soon. We’re drafting the FAQs, teasers, and event posters 🫶

Happy rainy Monday! Stay safe and dry, and happy!

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EDIT
Out of 23 initial registrants
- 11 confirmed (2 paid)
- 1 backed out (tito)
- 1 undecided
- 10 pending confirmation

Waitlist
More than 10 na. Since may nagback out na Tito, we will allocate his slot to another Tito on our waitlist (first come, first served).

Special invites
Those who received special invites before, please confirm if you can join so we can allocate the slots to others na super willing magjoin.

Thankie!

Sorry. Na-delete ko yung post ko. Hindi ko siya nacopy so here I am recalling what I wrote.

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To all Titos and Titas who initially registered for the event, please check your email, TG, and Reddit inboxes. I sent some updates and would like to confirm your attendance. If you remember signing up but did not get an email or a message from me, please DM me and provide the code name you entered when you signed up.

To all those who were not able to register on time, we'll reopen the registration once we have confirmed the attendance of those who initially signed-up and allocate reopened slots to our waitlisted participants.

To RED, Miss_Oh, and Benjoots - I can't find you on TG or Reddit. I also don't have your email addresses. Please DM me at baka iba maDM ko and maging organic encounter pa.

Thankie!

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Ito na mga Titos and Titas.

I'm creating the program flow na. Need some ideas (audience participation hehe).

What questions would you like to ask your fellow titos and titas sa event? Drop them in the comsec.

Ex.

1. What are your red/green flags?

2. What's the greatest life lesson your ex taught you?

3. If you were to see your ex today, what would you tell him/her?

SFW lang muna. Yung mga juicy questions, DM niyo na lang. Ififilter namin yung pwedeng itanong.

Salamuch!