r/TitosMeetTitas40s

Hi

I would be starting my treatment soon, and is also trying to forget some feelings. Looking for friends or somebody to talk too, male or female as long as you are decent. I just need to get thru those days that I am having the feelings again

Not sure how this works or if flair is correct.

Grabe noh parang ang cringe na mag emote kapag tita kana. I'm 34F. Kaka break lang. I don't know what to feel. Oo nasasaktan ako pero kasi ang tanda ko na tapos mararamdaman ko ulit yung ganito, yung ma broke. Nandito na naman sa stage na ganito instead na building a family na ang inaatupag ko. Hays. Sorry guys, baka need ko lang ng kausap. Friendly chat.

Hi Titos and Titas,

Thanks to all those who confirmed and deposited their joining fees. Don't worry, your money is safe with me.

We have not received responses from some of the initial registrants, so we are reallocating their slots to those on our wait-list.

To our wait-listers:

We have sent you the offer messages via email, TG, or Reddit. You may now secure your slots by completing the payment using the QR code provided. Please deposit before August 22 and reply to my message with proof of deposit.

Paging (code name) Boom Bilyo - please DM me. I can't find you on TG or Reddit.

Other updates:

Program Flow - We have finalized the 3-hour program consisting of icebreakers, games, discussions, culminating activity, and socials.

Prizes - We are currently seeking sponsors for our prizes. Salamat u/hersoftglow !

Parking - There is a pay parking near the venue. Street parking is also available.

Dress code - There will be games (konting takbuhan) so wear something comfortable but still appropriate for the event.

KTV - the venue is equipped with state-of-the-art KTV equipment. Maganda yung room promise! 4 ang TV monitors and may mini stage for the program.

Food and drinks are part of the consumables. We will preorder food and drinks and serve them at different intervals para makapagparticipate ang lahat sa activity, at hindi muna malasing.

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FAQs

Q: Pwede bang manood lang? Ayoko kasing makipagdate.

A: Again, this event is NOT really a dating event. It's supposed to be a meet-up lang but we thought of incorporating a dating portion. Most activities focus on interacting with fellow participants and sharing thoughts about specific topics. At the end of the day, baka kabisado niyo na profile ng at least half of the participants. Hindi namin kayo ifoforce-match. Those who are not willing to participate in the dating portion may opt not to join.

Q: Pano kung gusto ko talagang makameet ng someone special on the event? If this is not a dating event, hindi ko maacchieve yun.

A: Baka kayo pa mapagod sa kakaikot at kakausap sa mga participants dun. There are task-based activities that will allow you to approach people, ask questions, share thoughts about topics, and maybe exchange socials if consensual.

Q: Lahat po ba ng magjojoin ay single?

A: No. It's a mix of people who just want to meet new friends (40%), people who want to meet new friends and are open to meeting potential partners (56%), and 4% are intentional seekers. Hindi kami nanghingi ng ID so we cannot validate the age and relationship status of the joiners. You can take your sweet time in getting to know the person before, you know, giving in. Matanda na tayo. Gamitin ang utak, wag lang puso.

Q: Ilang Titos and Titas ang magjojoin?

A: Based on the initial registration, 60% Titas and 40% Titos. Pero syempre, it will all depend on who will confirm their slots first. By experience, yung mga Tito ang mahirap/matagal magconfirm. Kung kelan last minute, saka magdDM ng "Can I still join?". Yung mga Titas pa ang mas buo ang loob.

Q: Pwede bang humabol?

A: Pwede naman but take note that the venue has limited seating capacity. Only paid participants and staff will be allowed to enter the room.

Q: Can we stay for KTV?

A: We booked the room for 4 hours to allow us 3 hours of program and 1 extra hour for KTV. Naisip ko rin magpa-KTV game. Dami kong pakulong naiisip, kulang ang isang araw haha.

Q: Yung hosts po ba kasama sa dating portion? Baka ma-upstage kami.

A: I will be hosting together with u/samr518 . Wag pong mag-alala. Hindi po kami makikipagkompetensya sa participants. Hahaha. Maharot lang kami sa sub pero hanggang doon lang. Taken na po kami...for granted. Charot!

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Yun lang for now. More info to be shared soon. FAQs to follow, may event pa kasi ako this weekend on top of my regular job.

Thank you. (Pasensya na if may grammar lapses. Wala akong energy mag proofread 😅)

Just an observation. Not ranting but Im sure this has happened to many. Im not really looking for anything but from time to time i find people to chat with on reddit. some i still chat with while some convos just diminished. I was able to meet 2 people already and we had a great time naman ( id like to think so 😊)

But there are those who after a week of chatting still believes they can get real connection (without actualy seeing the other, and there are those that just wants to skip coffee & just be somewhere private (not really my thing).

Personaly id want to know if wed vibe as well in person like in our messages.

whats wrong with just having coffee? I think its good place to begin whatever.

Said all this just because its raining and cant get out of bed 😜 my longest post by far.

Stay dry everyone!i

Edit:
This tito just tunrned 50 and i plan to enjoy life moving forward

47 Filipino born and raised in San Francisco. Can’t speak Tagalog but I can understand and willing to learn. Going to the Philippines again this November but it would be nice to meet someone to travel with. Check out some Filipino culture, sights, clubs and some beaches.

I’m a bit spontaneous so I was hoping to find someone that can match my vibe.

Maybe it's the tita in me talking, but I kinda miss the idea of wholesome dating. 😅

Yung getting to know each other without rushing anything. Food trips. Random kwentos. Good morning messages that don't feel obligatory. Actually making plans to meet instead of being permanent chatmates.

And if you're no longer interested, sabihin lang. We're 40-ish. Kaya na natin 'yan. 😂 I'd take an honest "I don't think we're a match" over being left hanging and wondering if you got abducted by aliens.

Also, not every conversation needs an NSFW plot twist. Promise, marami tayong ibang pwedeng pag-usapan. 😆

I'm 40, single, from Imus, and still hopeful that someone out there wants the same simple thing: get to know each other, date intentionally, and see if something real grows from it.

Preferably someone around my age, single, stable, mature, and within Cavite/nearby or willing to meet halfway. Hit me up with your best intro. 😊

Gaya ng sinabi ko sa suject or ako lang ba?

Do you want to see me? Free your 29th then!

It'll be a fun filled night for sure :)

Tara!!

If you have further questions and clarifications kung ano meron sa 29, basahin nyo yung mga posts dito. Pede nyo ko DM - not a Hi and Hello lang ha. Entice my mind. Baka malay mo sumali ako sa games hahahaha 🤪🤪🤪

Majority of us has learned from our past relationships and would know better now. We are more emotionally mature and knows what we want in life. I'm hoping na ganun ka dun so if ever, this time will be sweeter and better than our past mistakes.

Definitely not looking for anything casual. I've been out of the saddle for so long because work got in a way so if makikipag date uli, I would prefer something meaningful and long lasting.

I can give my best effort when trying to get to know each other. So sana ganun ka rin. If dry ka makipagusap and wouldn't really want to converse, please don't bother.

About me:

I know and respect that some people would prefer someone with a car so uunahan ko na. I don't have one because I work from home and and everything is near my place so I don't really need it to move around. So I already disposed of it as I find it a liability lang.

Active gym goer and very fit

Plays playstation if I wanna destressed or watch movies/series.

An anime fan

I work GY

From QC

Has a weird sense of humor but I can be funny pagtiisan mo lang yung mga sablay na 😃 joke

The goal is to travel as much as I can this year

Living alone and can host if we want a canle light dinner and just to hang via drinking/eating while watching

Has a very strict diet but can cook almost all filipino dishes (ipag luluto kita)

About you:

Fit and has an active lifestyle. Doesn't necessraily mean you are a gym rat but you are doing an activity to stay slim (Kilala ko sarili ko and I don't get attracted to someone chubby no matter how beautiful) Preference lang po, sorry na!

it's a plus if you work GY too so we can chat/call while working but not required

QC din sana or somewhere really near to lessen the hassle of meeting/dating.

Not dry kausap and willing to put in the effort to get to know each other.

If pasok sa preference mo and criteria, slide me a DM!

Hi Titos/Titas,

We found a venue in Makati and we can accommodate a few more since the venue can hold up to 40 pax (up to 30 participants, 6 committee members, and 4 special guests 😂)

To those who confirmed their attendance, we have sent additional details including the QR code for payment.

To those who initially registered but have not replied to my email/messages, please check your inbox and confirm attendance on or before August 19. May six (6) titos/titas na tayo sa waitlist. Your slots will be given to them if we do not get a confirmation by the deadline.

To those waitlisted, please give us until August 19. We will allocate remaining slots to you. Priority to be given to people in their 40s and older (kasi nga po 40s sub po ito), pero if there are no other takers na, we’d be happy to offer the slots to under 40 na naka-waitlist.

Reminders:
- The joining fee is non-refundable and will be used to cover food, drinks, and venue rental for 4 hours.
- As much as possible, we plan to have an equal distribution of Tito and Tita participants. Ex. If a Tito backs out, we will try to replace with a waitlisted Tito.

More information to be shared soon. We’re drafting the FAQs, teasers, and event posters 🫶

Happy rainy Monday! Stay safe and dry, and happy!

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EDIT
Out of 23 initial registrants
- 11 confirmed (2 paid)
- 1 backed out (tito)
- 1 undecided
- 10 pending confirmation

Waitlist
More than 10 na. Since may nagback out na Tito, we will allocate his slot to another Tito on our waitlist (first come, first served).

Special invites
Those who received special invites before, please confirm if you can join so we can allocate the slots to others na super willing magjoin.

Thankie!

Hi. Before anyone DMs me to say "what, totoo ba yan? Vir*** ka pa talaga? Pano ka hindi nagka-boyfriend?" - Let me tell you that I'm not lying and don't want to waste time here convincing folks to believe me :)

About me:

- Grew up and umabot sa ganitong edad na school-bahay, work-bahay ang routine

- Went to univ somewhere in NCR. My parents lived back in the province. I learned to become independent quite early

- I enjoy, or have become used to going to the movies alone, traveling alone, dining out alone, shopping alone, etc. since my college days

- Employed; has worked in several non-tech roles sa tech industry.

- Lonely. Both my parents have passed away

- Naghahanap ako ng kausap from time to time. Hopefully gain a male friend. Why male? I've come to the point na gusto ko naman mas makakilala ng lalaki sa buhay ko.

- Socially awkward with men in general (except sa work setting). Never learned how to flirt or what. Talagang aral and work lang ako so far

- I have very close female friends but malalayo din kami sa isa't isa now, so not much IRL socializing going on

- I'm on the heavier side and working to become healthier. (Had limited mobility due to an accident and can't wait to walk a lot and travel again)

- Hindi madaldal, but can be once I get really close to and comfy with someone. Loves talking about random ideas and questions about the world, life in general, etc.

About you:

- +/- 7 yrs my age

- Decent guy, employed or has a business/working on something na hindi illegal or unethical. No red flag na financial issues

- Level-headed. Matured and malawak ang pag-iisip.

- Does not take pleasure in other people's (or animals') misery

- Walang bisyo. Not into gambling of any form, as well as smoking, vaping, drugs. Sorry, sana hindi rin alcoholic. Occasional drinks are fine

- Believes in the value of hardwork and lifelong learning, curiosity. Marunong magresearch or kahit gumamit man lang ng Google.

- Marunong magsaing, gumamit ng panggatong, mag-ihaw (sakaling magcamping tayo in the future). Haha. (Believe me when I say may mga titos na super sheltered na hindi marunong magprepare ng sarili nilang food.)

Hello All. Active Fit Fun & Funny and a Foodie.
8 out of 10. Promise 😉🤣.
American.
DM for more info.

Happy weekend! musta Sunday mo so far?. 😊

I’d like to meet someone na pwedeng makasama sa life, someone genuine, emotionally mature, hindi mahilig sa mixed signals, and hopefully best friend and partner in one.

About me:

5'10"

67kg

From Cavite

Soft-spoken

Stable job

May sariling bahay

Single dad (hindi naman to magiging conflict sa atin)

Maganda record ko, never nag-cheat

I date to marry

Music nerd, mahilig sa CDs and gumawa ng playlists sa Spotify

I enjoy meaningful conversations, good food, music, PS5, and simple dates

I'm not here for hookups or temporary entertainment. I'd rather take my time getting to know someone and see where things naturally go.

About you:

Decent, kind, emotionally mature, and hindi avoidant sana. 😅

Someone who knows what she wants and is willing to communicate when things get difficult.

If you're also looking for something genuine, say hello!

Malay mo, this time, tayo na pala ang plot twist. 😊

Thank you for helping me move on from my ex. Thank you for being the voice of reason. Thank you for reeling me in, no matter how much I wanted to get back with him. Thank you for being sweet, caring, thoughtful, always greeting and checking up on me. Thank you sa pag hatid sundo mo sakin(bare minimum yarn?). Thank you for making me feel like I still have a boyfriend. Thank you for making me feel loved even though you don't love me.

I respect your decision. I bared my heart and soul to you, yet you didn't feel the same way. Wag ka magalala, naiintindihan ko kung gusto mong lumayo. At the end of the day, it's for my own good.

Gayunpaman, tito. Real talk. Umamin ka na kay titang B. Friends lang daw kayo pasimple ka pa you're meeting other women achuchuchu but I know. The way you talk about her, the subtle changes in your facial expression. You're in love with her and you'll do anything for her. If I can't compete with her then I'll give way. I want both of you to be happy.

Bye 🥲

Hello. Anyone living or working in Ortigas Center? Walk trip tayo sa Strata minsan! Looking for friends around the area.

Good day! First of all, salamat sa lahat ng organizers na nag-aasikaso para sa event na ito. You could have been enjoying your time, yet you chose to be busy para sa kaligayahan ng iba. Ang babait ninyo—tengkyu!!! 🥹

Sana katulad ko rin kayo na excited na sa TMT40s Meet-up on the 29th! Sa totoo lang, excited ako pero kinakabahan din. This is the first time na sasali ako sa ganitong event. Nakakahiya mang aminin, pero first time ko rin makakapasok ng KTV kung sakali. 🤣

Ever since umalis na ako sa kulto last year na kinabilangan ko simula bata ako, ngayon lang yata ako magsisimulang makihalubilo nang ganito. Bawal kami noon makipag-date at makipagrelasyon. Parang ngayon lang talaga ako magsisimulang mabuhay...... at sorry na, ngayon lang talaga ako lalandi in ferson!!

But anyways, ayoko pumunta sa event na may dalang sama ng loob. Kung nakuha man ng kulto ang higit sa kalahati ng buhay ko, may panahon pa rin naman ako para magsimula. 🩷

Kung hindi man ako maging successful sa 29th na mahanap ang aking "Da One", sasakses pa rin naman ako pero step by the step dahil sa makilala na mga bagong tao, pagkakaroon ng bagong experiences, at pagkakaroon ng mga bagong kaibigan. 😘

Good luck sa ating lahat! Kita-kits sa 29th! May the odds be ever in our favor. 🫡