u/Cha-Cha-Cha-

It has been a month in my first hospitalist job after graduation. I feel no difference. I fell I am still in the grinding mood. I have a lot of time off that I am relaxing or going out with friends, but I do not feel the excitement about my life that I expected to feel after I finish residency.
Maybe I am burnt out, or maybe that is it!
I keep asking myself, is this what I was trying to achieve for the last then years?! Is it worth it?!
Money hit my account already and I was like, alright!
I am so grateful, but dunno if this is an existential crisis or my brain still did not get it.

I got two RFEs back to back. First one was for a missing piece of information which it was already submitted with the initial application. I responded to the first RFE and I received the second one two hours after asking for evidence that I am still practicing my career end-over.
Is this normal?! I will submit the evidences soon, but should I be concerned?

I went for a trim 3c mid back length. I ended up with an even shoulder length cut. I am so devastated. I did not sleep for two nights. How can I grow it back fast😭
My hair is so hard to grow!

Anyone got I 485 approved without seeing any silent updates?!
My case has been sitting for months and I do not see anything on the API, just couple of FTA0 after biometrics.

I was checking the website and found out status changed to interview was scheduled in Dec 2021. Which does not make any sense. I filled April 2026.
Is it a system glitch?

I 485 is pending. I applied for advance patrol as well. I am on H1b. I started losing hope that nothing will be approved soon. I need to travel for family reasons. Is it safe to travel?
I do not have a visa stamp, so I will need to show up for an interview at my home country.

Filled I 485 April 23rd
Biometrics June 2nd
Got one FA0 June 2nd after biometrics and two FA0 the next morning. Nothing after. No silent updates.

Do you guys go on a vacation after graduation or just study for the board?!
I feel guilty about having fun and nit spending most of the time studying🙁