r/CurlyHairCare

i’m making a christmas list and want to put a good shampoo/conditioner on my list that i wouldn’t normally buy for myself. usually, i just purchase drugstore shampoo/conditioner. while there’s nothing wrong with them at all, i want to venture out!

not sure of my curl type but i think it’s 2c/3a. it’s VERY coarse. not really sure of the porosity either. it takes a while to get wet but, it dries super fast. i struggle with frizz and poofyness. my goal is frizz control and definition!

no budget but, i’d like for it to be available on amazon us!

( I posted this in another group, but it didn't gain any traction :( )

I have about 3A hair (correct me if it appears otherwise) that’s really, really dry and tangles and mats easily. My ends usually dry faster than my scalp. It might be because I have a ton of hair on my scalp.

As of now, I’m kind of being forced to use the TRESemmé Bouncy Curls Shampoo and Conditioner set. I’ve tried to look into other things but I usually have to share with another family member because hair products are expensive. The relative also has curly hair, but it’s not as thick or coarse as mine.

I have also used Shea Moisture curl cream, The Doux Big Poppa Defining Gel (just for definition; I never do slick backs), and various mousses for styling. I put in product more in the midsection and ends to avoid product buildup (I have a lot of hairline acne and have heard that buildup can cause it). I straighten my hair once in a blue moon, but never very often.

I wear a bonnet, but I move around a lot in my sleep, and it rarely stays on the whole night. I have tried pins, but they are uncomfortable and don’t stay either. I also use a silk pillowcase but am not really sure how to maintain either the bonnet or the pillowcase. I almost always let my hair air dry. I never brush it when it is dry because it poofs.

Any budget-friendly product recs, general hair tips, or tips on how to keep my bonnet and pillowcase in optimal condition to care for my hair?

Hi!

So recently I got a curly cut and I was recommended to start using sulfate and paraben free products, the issue is that now my hair is supper frizzy and won't hold a curl anymore.

Any recommendations on what to do?

I have never felt so frustrated with my hair before, I am even considering straightening my hair or cutting it super short so I don't have to deal with it 🙃

I'll add a picture of the before, when I used my regular products.

Post-chemo curls: figuring out my curl type and why my roots stay flatter 🌸
Hi everyone! I’ve always had wavy hair, but since chemo, it’s grown back much curlier. I’m learning how to style this new texture and would love some advice!
I think I have a mix of mostly 3A curls with some tighter, possibly 3B ringlets—does that look right from the photos?
The sides and ends form spirals, but the top stays flatter near my scalp and curls more toward the ends. Is that normal for this curl pattern/length, or could my products or styling technique be contributing?

My routine, in order:
Shampoo
Conditioner
Leave-in conditioner
Ouidad VitalCurl+ Curl Defining Mousse
Curlsmith Hydro Style Flexi Jelly
I’d love suggestions for getting more lift and definition near the roots and helping the curls form consistently. Does using both mousse and gel make sense for my hair, or should I simplify? Any application, brush-styling, or drying tips for short curls would be really helpful.
If you’ve had post-chemo curls, I’d also love to hear what worked for you. Thank you! 💕

Why does my hair look like this without product? I literally can’t live without dumping leave in and curl cream. I’m starting to consider getting a perm or even chemically straightening it because I’m so tired of having to do so much jut for my hair to look presentable. Is there anyway to fix other than just stacking in more and more product?

1. ⁠Shea moisture curl conditioner no shampoo today
2. ⁠No other products

after this wash, but I usually use miss Jennies curl condish leave in and the based curl cream EVERY SINGLE day.

3. Very gently used towel mainly air dried
4. No pillowcases or bonnet, bonnets always make my hair clump up for some reason.
5. I condition my hair everytime I shower but only shampoo twice a week.

I’ve been looking for a new curl cream and I wanted to try Skala but apparently it’s not good for your hair. I saw the Lola brand is good but I don’t know which bottle to try. Or if you have better recommendations pls let me know. I also want to try out the pink eco gel so if anyone uses that I would love some advice. Thanks!

Why does my hair look like this without product? I literally can’t live without dumping leave in and curl cream. I’m starting to consider getting a perm or even chemically straightening it because I’m so tired of having to do so much jut for my hair to look presentable. Is there anyway to fix other than just stacking in more and more product?

1. Shea moisture curl conditioner no shampoo today
2. No other products

after this wash, but I usually use miss Jennies curl condish leave in and the based curl cream EVERY SINGLE day.

1. Very gently used towel mainly air dried
2. No pillowcases or bonnet, bonnets always make my hair clump up for some reason.

I love my curls but they are dry as heck. My hair is THICK and coarse. Any advice would be much appreciated 🙏