u/Chanfaded

I've seen so many people arguing on Facebook lately about how they don't think abortion should be legal. When someone posted about a province in Canada now being able to self refer for abortions I commented, "that's amazing news!" Underneath n had a bunch of people being mean to me under that comment.

Mistakes happen, you're allowed to have an abortion if you had sex and for some reason the birth control didn't work.

You're allowed to have an abortion if you were sexually assaulted and don't want the child.

You're allowed to have an abortion if you're not mentally or physically prepared.

You're allowed to have an abortion if you're not financially stable.

You're allowed to have an abortion if it wouldn't be safe for you physically carry through with it.

You're allowed to have an abortion just because you don't want to be pregnant.

Having an abortion for any of these reasons IS taking responsibility. No it is not taking a life, the life hasn't started yet, you are not a murderer for it. You're allowed to opt out, and it's cruel that people try so hard to make you feel bad for it.

I've never had an abortion, I also don't have kids, but if I did ever end up pregnant by mistake somehow I would get one. Just because I haven't had one doesn't mean I can't be supportive to people who have. Being pregnant is mentally and physically taxing, you have no right to tell someone no, it's not your body.

I currently work as a sheet metal apprentice right now. Hate my job, but I'd be willing to continue it if I was given the choice to work 3 12h shifts. However, realistically a job with 3 12h shifts would be the main goal. It would make me a lot happier, way less burnt out, I'd actually be able to do things that give me joy again.

But how many jobs really offer hours like that? Please feel free to give me any suggestions at all!

I'm tired of people making it seem like I'm lazy when I say 40h work weeks are super draining. I work in a trade, my body always hurts, I'm always burnt out, and working 40h is currently the only affordable option right now, but when I bring it up to other people I've worked with they make it seem like it's a work ethic problem. I almost never miss work, I do whatever I need to at my job, just because I don't wanna work the 5th day doesn't make me lazy.

No, I wanna be able to enjoy my life outside of work.

I'm tired of never being able to do things I enjoy outside of work because I'm too tired to do them anymore.

2 days is barely enough time to recover from the exhaustion I feel throughout the week.

Even if I worked a job that wasn't super labor taxing I would still prefer a 32 hour week. Why? Because even with 3 days off I'd still be working more days than not, and I wanna be able to see old friends again. Being an adult it's so hard to find days off that match with your friends, having that extra day would make things sooo much easier.

I'd also be fine working 3 12 hour shifts if 4 8's weren't an option, actually it would be much preferred. More money than 4 8's and less working days.

I have very hooded eyes, and nearly every single time I put on eyeliner it smears when I open my eyes at all. I have to keep my eyes super squinted to the point I can almost not see until I think it's dry n then blink, however it still eventually smudges anyway.

What eyeliner would you recommend that I get? I also don't want it to come off underneath my eyes neither I have very watery eyes so eyeliner underneath doesn't stay long at all:(