I just want my mom back
My mom and I were super close like we would talk and do everything together talk about issues how she felt about certain things and she would be ready to listen.
Unfortunately this can change over night cause one day she stopped talking to me all together this was March. She asked me if I slept with her man who I have told her I didn’t like him and he made me feel uncomfortable with things he’s said to me. After a while of silence I asked her what was wrong and she thinks I slept with him!! He’s been around for ages and has done nothing but be a burden to my mother and a creep! I told her I didn’t and she doesn’t believe me. She said she woke up at two am and she heard us running around the house giggling together then ran to our room. She never got up to check to see if we got up then my brother came home supposedly after. So her story is we were doing something heinous in the living room then my brother came home and we ran to our rooms.
This night I actually was up late watching YouTube video which I do have proof of on my phones time management section but it shows between 1-2 I stopped (which in her eyes doesn’t help my story)fast forward I don’t like being in the same room nor talking to this man for long periods of time and no one likes him AT ALL. He was rude and wouldn’t leave like my mom had been trying to get him to leave for the longest and he wouldn’t go.
Hut after my mom asked him if we slept together he said no and my mom finally kicked him out but this didn’t mean it was over this is when she started to get physical. After my mom kicked him out she confronted him again and at this point I was over this she was giving me evil stares for weeks on end and on the silent treatment. I told her no I didn’t and I would never do it but she kept pushing that he was gone and I didn’t have to lie anymore and I told her i wasn’t lying i swore on the Bible my life and my babies lives I wouldn’t do it to her but she kept calling me a lier
At this point I had enough and I packed somethings to go to my boyfriends house so I could get some space from her and that went on for 2 weeks and one of the days she blocked me from leaving we got into it and she was pushing me and shoving me and I swatted her hand away cause I didn’t want to get hit and she went ballistic mind you I am 28 and she is 56 I would NEVER lay my hands on her on any circumstance but this was barely anything it didn’t make a sound but she told everyone I hit her.
Days came and went and we avoided eachother and I thought at one point we would get better. I became bitter and spoke to a therapist on how to deal with her if I get confronted again by her. Then Mother’s Day came and went I didn’t get her anything. She said it was a sign of disrespect and I got kicked out. So I’ve been getting my things out the house until she blocked my way to make herself seem like the victim “this was a hard decision” “treating you like an adult” “you’re old enough to be out”
Which I answered with yes i understand yes of course.monotone.dead eyed. Packing. “I have you 30 days you don’t have to rush” then I stopped told her I have to cause she said something about protecting her peace and i understood that and I need to protect mine. I spoke to my therapist and how to deal with this and I was handling it but she started screaming saying I was lying to everyone and she was the only one who knew the real truth yadda yadda . I told her I hated her for what she’s done to our relationship and her for the situation and I don’t regret that I did then I went out the garage and she pushed me down
I’m terrified of her right now I’m scared to get the res of my things I know I should call no emergency police like to get my stuff but why is this happening.. we were so close I miss my mom