My GF stays away when i try to put in
Hi everyone. We are literally trying to have sex for a year with my GF. (25M-23F) She does not have much experience. Me, i can say same thing for me but at least i did some. We do foreplay as it supposed to be but when i try to put my penis in her she moves away like she hurt a lot. But i do nothing i just touch her hole with my tip. We tried to do this a lot but the keeps doing same. I know she is raised in a conservative(idk its called like that?) family. She feels so much pressure on herself about being seen with me etc. She says she wants me inside of her a lot but we can’t make it happen. After seeing her in a pain(?) i don’t want to force and push her. Sometimes i cum early when i rub her clit and she says “what if we do it and you cum early. My first one will be wasted” This gives me a performance pressure.
What should i do? I think she is in “what if i do and we do not marry” kind of thoughts. How was your first? She says she feels safe with me but as sexually she is not.