I put myself in this position
My ex and I reconnected at a local club we would usually meet at last week. Well that night one thing led to another and I stayed the night at this house. It felt like we were in a relationship again: cuddling, kissing, him taking care of my needs, making breakfast for me, showering together. After he dropped me off at my house I didn’t hear from him for a few days so I reached out using the jacket I left as an excuse. He had no intentions of reaching out because he said we argued a lot during our relationship and he didn’t think it would be best. It’s true we did argue a lot when we were away from each other, but when we were together things felt easy. It’s been 2 months since the breakup but I was very open to discussing what went wrong and maybe if things were repairable. I opened up to him about this and he said he is unsure of a relationship right now, but that it felt good reconnecting and seeing me again. I’m heartbroken because I thought our interaction together meant a little more, but I guess I was wrong. Don’t do what I did and reopen that door of heartbreak.