u/ChemicalPublic8456

Hi all, i had a confirmed ectopic in Feb 26 but I am now concerned that my first miscarriage (July 25) was actually also an ectopic. They never found anything on a scan (PUL it was early) but were satisfied my numbers were going down. However it was v different to my confirmed miscarriage (Oct 25). My biggest concern if this was a second ectopic and both were self resolving, my liklihood of another is high. I am not sure I want to continue TTC however accidental pregnancy where I am unaware and it ends up being ectopic is now a worry. What are peoples experiences of having a removal vs leaving a very likely to be damaged tube?

I have had 3 losses in 8 months (2 early miscarriage, 1 ectopic) and recently went to see a private Dr as NHS waiting times are something at the moment! Nothing anatomical as far as he can see, however I have a grandmother that had lupus, and he has brought that as a possibility into the mix. Has anyone else had a lupus diagnosis on the back of zero symptoms? I am getting my GP to run blood work shortly (rather than pay for it) but just interested to know.