u/Chemical_Arachnid348

My boyfriend isn’t short, but he uses a wheelchair so it feels like I’m dating a short guy. (I’m 5’11). Of course, I wish we could be at eye level and walk together like most couples but I’ve learned to accept it. I still find him very attractive, and when you love someone the physical stuff isn’t super important. I really dislike how superficial the dating market has become especially with social media. People are really missing the point.

I still wear heels, and I don’t care that I’m much taller. The only thing I wish is for him to walk again. I never imagined I would fall in love with a wheelchair user but we are perfect for each other and I can’t wait to be married.

Obviously I’ll never know exactly what it’s like to be short as a man, but I do think you should be grateful for the way God made you and grateful for your health. There will always someone out there who will love you the way you are. ❤️

I got a new job which is amazing because I’ll be making way more money. I’ll be able to pay off my debt and not have to stress over bills. But I’m scared to fall back into my old patterns.

My biggest trigger is having money in my bank account. My addiction was the worst when I was making lots of money. I would spend almost my entire paycheck on clothes, skincare, supplements etc.

So I need to be so careful this time. I’ve literally never had a savings account so this is a great opportunity to start. It’s going to be so difficult to keep myself in check. I have a long list of items I want but I have to stop myself from buying them all at once.