u/CherrySpecific2420

I (14M) sometimes get baby-talked by SOME girls in the 9th grade. It is usually a 'popular' girl. Is it because i am super young for my year? Since everybody is 15-16 in my year. I don't know if they see me as friendly or think i am mentally disabled.

Also, i don't see much wrong with my personality? I am kinda the chill nerdy guy idk. I usually give answers during class instead of being rude abt it, i do let people write off my hw. I have nerdy interests, i made an entire network where i helped people study for a hard test and they actually passed, some got a higher grade than me. They trusted me since i am a top student. BUT!! A few months ago everytime an unpopular girl talked to me i assumed they liked me. Looking back at it i kind of am disappointed since they 100% of the time saw me as friendly.

Also, thanks to me i managed to help a girl pass this year, since she was dangerously close to repeating a year, i helped her and she passed the test and is moving to the next year. She also sometimes calls me cute but its platonic. I also helped tons of other dudes/girls and helped them pass too. I am very awkward tho, i was very silently waiting for a KFC worker to take my order because i was scared to say something. Is there something wrong with me which is the motive for people to talk to me like this, are people talking shit behind my back, or am i good? Also i sadly failed to help a girl pass since she misbehaved horribly and got expelled :(.

But this is where i got pissed off, a girl i saw as kind and friendly talked shit about me behind my back, thankfully my classmates heard her and told me. I clearly show signs i dislike her but she can't a hint. Ever since then i work out till i look muscular, but sadly my wrists are still skinny. Also, it might be because im shorter than most dudes in my year (i am 5'7 aka 172 cm).

I am 5'7 (172 cm) at 14 years old, i started puberty at around 12 years old and 9-10 months. This was my height in the past years

July 2022: 5'
July 2023: 5'2 (157 cm)
July 2024: 5'4
July 2025: 5'6 (~168 cm)
January 30th 2026: 5'7 (171,8 cm)
June 11th 2026: still 5'7 (~172 cm) (i cried very hard after this measuring)

These are the height of my relatives

Mother: 158 cm (5'2)
Father: 176 cm (5'9)
Paternal oldest half-brother: 189 cm (6'2)
Paternal older half-brother: 180 cm (5'11)
Their mother: 175 cm (5'9)
Maternal uncle: 169 cm (5'6)
Great-grandpa's nephew (maternal): ~195 cm (6'5)
The nephew's son (also maternal): 185 cm (6'1)
Paternal cousin: ~195 cm (6'5)
Also some short relatives on my mom's side (women usually 5'1-5'4, men 5'5-5'9)
Paternal side: Female 5'3-5'5, males 5'6-6'5 (only a selected few are above 5'11)
Maternal aunt: 161 cm (5'3)
Maternal cousins (female): 5'6 and 5'4

I have an incomplete voice and other traits that still scream my puberty is unfinished but im not sure.. Please tell me, i really wanna know. ChatGPT claimed my most likely height is gonna be 175-176 (5'9) but i don't want that, i wanna be atleast 5'11!