Dyuti triggers me
My god. I don't even know what the point of writing this post is, but that's how much this man has enraged me. Truly, enraged me.
The list of things I could say about him, is so long, but I'll say a few things to allow myself a little venting session.
First of all, this man, who clearly thinks the world of himself, has no respect for the mother of his children. I'm only 3 episodes in, and he literally uses his money against her. For him to demand that she stay at home and look after his kids, while not doing the same, is so blatantly insane to me.
He's making jokes about how controlling his wife is, which, in and of itself is so demeaning. My partner and I are a team, we have each other's backs. You won't ever see me going around whispering about him behind his back, making fun of him with my friends. It's demeaning. Fucking period.
He gaslights her, speaks over her, and actually just throws divorce papers at her, gives her an ultimatum, either go to a doctor or get divorced. Like????
You're literally out here hanging out in broad daylight, on a yacht, with other men. You've left your wife alone at home, and you're a literal MILLIONAIRE. What would it cost you to allow your wife the same freedom you keep saying she doesn't give you?
Does it take that much?
He throws this larger than life party for his father, but doesn't invite his own mother to it? Like? You're barely at home, you barely even speak to your mother, who is clearly uncomfortable on camera, and then you sit down with your mom, almost conspiring against your own wife, take your mom's word for it, don't even try and allow your wife to speak to you... And then you demand that she takes psychiatric help or you'll leave her?
So her only option, after years of being with you, when you admittedly said you had no money, have resulted in... Nothing. A marriage where she can't expect her husband's loyalty, attention or even understanding. She needs to, as multiple people on the show have verbatim asked her to, "Let him be". So just let him flirt around and dance around with women on yachts. You shut up, stay at home, take care of the kids. Why? Because I'm a millionaire and I paid for this pathetic, awful, miserable life of yours.
WHAT. THE. ACTUAL. FUCK.
He reminds me so so much of my ex. The same non chalance and the same lack of care. It's just insane to me that he truly, in his heart, doesn't give a single fuck about the mother of his own children. What's most infuriating, is this facade he creates, of being an invested father. You can see how uncomfortable he is when the camera points to him with his kids. You can see that he likes them when they're around him in small doses. As soon as the tension shifts slightly, he pretends to be the netter parent and asks his kids to leave. Then proceeds to mistreat the mother of these very same kids.
His fucking mom dude. What the fuck? I'm a native bengali speaker, And I can tell you for a fact, subtitles do not do justice to the level of venom she spewed. To sob and cry over the fact that your daughter in law isn't spending enough time with her kids... Is... Idek how to process that. Guess I'm just shocked that she doesn't cry over how cold her son is, to his wife, and to his kids. He's out "working", but somehow has enough time to go to clubs and yacht parties, that too (as I mentioned before), in broad fucking daylight.
You literally lie to your wife, then act offended when she confronts you for the same. You don't give a single fuck. For him to go behind her back and air his dirty laundry like that... To say that they only got married because his wife got pregnant... Wow.
He doesn't even care about how that would make her feel. He doesn't care that he's saying these things about his wife, and they're going to be aired on Netflix. A platform where thousands of people are going to watch him see these things.
Fucking disgusting.