u/Cherub-Angel

Aries Sun woman with Capricorn moon and Pisces rising/Venus.
Just airing this out a little. Could never figure it out. May Gemini men always ruin me.
June Geminis I can laugh eternally and adventure with. I have two best friends(one guy, one girl) that are June Geminis.
The May Geminis are instant attraction, almost like they choose you the moment they lay eyes on you and decide you belong to them.
I’ve witnessed this unfolding firsthand. I seriously think I can sense them before I find out their birthdate.
Two of my Gemini exes had the same birthday.

With these men, it’s all stare into your soul with love drunk puppy eyes, witty banter, borderline mean teasing, mischievous laughter, dedicating music to you, nonstop memes, touching you like you’re a national treasure.
Then…
It’s explosive anger, possessiveness, jealousy, social media stalking, projecting, cheating, gaslighting, and rewriting of stories. Yup, they can’t have just one woman for long.
And yet these men ALWAYS end up so possessive I can barely have a conversation with another man without a “who the fawk is that?”
God forbid I even laugh with another man. But whyyy tho.

Yet I can’t seem to unclench. They’re intoxicating troublemakers. What a thrill that I don’t know what twin/personality I’ll get that day?
It doesn’t help that they’re usually obsessed with me as well. Never works out in the end, but we can’t stay away from each other.

Anyone else feeling it with the Geminis?

I’ve (28f) been talking to this guy (29m) for around three months. We arent official and havent slept together.

So far chemistry is amazing, we connect on so many levels.
However I noticed a few things early on. Since the first time we went out, he questioned me, asking if I was talking to/flirting with other guys. When I said no I got a “good keep it like that”.
Then he also does this thing when I mention guy friends or coworkers I talk to. He sucks in a breath and has to literally look the other way. I can see his face all scrunched up.
He’ll also rub his eyes really hard and look down, like he can’t even look at me? He really has to compose himself when he gets jealous, which seems like he does very easily.

Another thing he does, the biggest one, is glare straight at guys I talk to. It’s a challenging look like he’s ready to fight them. He will even come and put his arm around my waist. These are guys we both know, who are friends of friends.

I’ve never encountered this before and it seems like he’s doing his best to control his anger/jealousy. He’s never directly gotten angry with me. But is this too much? Too many red flags?