What are the things Ulwe needs the most rn?

Ulwe is nice and all... I like living here, but every now and then I remember we still don't have things that seem so trivial outside.

A cinema (or mall )so I don't have to travel to nexus seawoods just to watch a movie every time.

A classic bookstore also nhi hai afaik.

More cafes and restaurants that stay open late because 10 pm is bedtime for businesses here.

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u/ChocoLatteNoFoam — 9 days ago

Why has the Jupiter Transit made me have constant fights with my mother?

Aries ascendant and Gemini moon ( w Sa). No planets in cancer.

We've always had disagreements but we had been pretty close and got closer in the Gemini transit. But ever since Jupiter entered cancer, i've been having such bad explosive arguments with her and she's been getting on my nerves literally every day.

For example today she comes and tells me how one of her acquaintances/ our family friend man in his 50s told her that I'm too skinny and petite and I should gain weight for the career I'm aiming for ( gov service. Does this advice make any sense guys) and my mom chimed in and said well now she has gained little weight and doesn't look as skinny as before.

When my mom was enthusiastically telling me this shit I was like wtffff is this. How is my competence tied to my body size. This is fucking body shaming, stupid and I lost it when she was saying this to me. Also I said how tf did you not call this person out, when I yelled and explained how wrong it was she started yelling back and justified it and said I'm so arrogant that I'll never be successful in life, that I should be more humble ( sun ketu libra native btw lol ) towards older people's opinions. It was followed by half an hour of yelling and over reaction of how much of a bad daughter I am. I was so disappointed that she doesn't understand why I'm mad. I have started to resent her sm since the transit. I was hoping and thinking it's gonna be good as its exalted in my 4th house but I'm done.

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u/ChocoLatteNoFoam — 17 days ago

Someone please calm me tf down I am anxious enough to feel breathless, optional nhi hua hai, studies mains ki nhi ho rhi, if I fail pre my parents will make my life hell, if I pass I'm scared for mains. This delay of results is not helping either

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u/ChocoLatteNoFoam — 21 days ago
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Will I have twins? What is the possible timeline for child birth and marriage? 23 F. Context below

No judgements please.

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I'm unmarried and the whole idea of marriage seems like something, I'm unsure how I'll deal with. Seeing my father being somewhat emotionally unavailable to me, relatives and men around me who use their wives as walking carpets has made me apprehensive about the idea of marriage.

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I dated two people briefly and I might be reading too much into this to find a pattern but I genuinely find good, sweet, generous, respectful, humble men, both had their fathers die at a young age, both spoiled me, and treated me like a princess. Almost in a way that I saw a future but, somehow due to external reasons it just abruptly ends and leaves me emotionally devasted and takes years to recover. The last person was someone I thought was the person I'll marry, everything from family, education, community matched up well only for him to call me one day after ldr saying he doesn't wanna continue due to career lol. Maybe it's a subtle indifference or lack of expectations in me about marriage after all this shit show. I used to romanticize love when I was younger but now I just feel all I want ( if ever I want ) is an uncomplicated court wedding or a temple wedding with less people, a private, humble, spiritual, simple, calm life partner and a quiet off socials life.

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BUT. one thing I'm really obsessed about and so so so badly want are kids, ik, now is young but in the future I really want a child. I keep a list of baby names, love and melt every time a baby video pops up on my feed. I keep thinking when I have a child I'm gonna do that, do this, this is the life I wanna give to my baby, I gotta save and keep all my books for my kids to read when they grow up, etc. ( lwk feels I wanna get married just to have a child loll)

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I know these sound ridiculous cuz don't even think of marriage or future husband the way I think of being a mother. 😭

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u/ChocoLatteNoFoam — 22 days ago