Would you date you?
Something I've observed in the Christian community is that you people want unicorns and there's sufficient evidence to back this claim even in this sub.
But sometimes you need to get back to the drawing board and take a look at yourself. Strip naked and look in the mirror if it helps😂. Analyse your social skills, conversation skills, physical image, spiritual immaturity, finances, career, traits like discipline, solving conflict, etc. ........Then ask yourself "would I date someone like me?" Then go back to your long list of demands and compare the two (eg "she must be intelligent, beautiful,funny,virgin, devoted to God, young etc") and ask yourself "would this Christian man/woman want me?" ......Sometimes we should be willing to compromise eg if you aren't a virgin why are you hyperfixated on getting a virgin partner? I think it's only valid to tick that off your long list of deal breakers.(Just an example)
Anyway find areas in your life where you are lacking and make it your life's mission to improve those little things. I think that's what the purpose of being single should be (Of course nobody is perfect and perfection is never the goal but we can be better).
Spirituality should move alongside self awareness imo. Have a blessed weekend