Dudes, pls give me advice. I made first movement to my co -worker today. and he said 'I'll think about it.'
Hey y'all. I have a guy co-worker working with all day long.
We have been grabing a beer couple times after work, sometimes he paid me all dinner bills. Like 2~3 times.
I have known he is talking with other gurl in dating app, but I pretended I support him cuz I was freaking out losing this relationship.
Now when I ask 'are you seeing that girl?'
He said 'yeah, but not dating.'
I said 'hey, i didn't mean to be unprofessional, but I am going to be honest for a bit. Would it make you freaking out or gonna be fine?'
Him: what are you talking about?
Me: I'm jealous of her.
Him: you Jealous of me?"
Me: I'm jealous of HER.
(He smiled and seems shy🥲)
Me: Don't want to push you, you can say no. I am still gonna be professional at work.
Him: yeah, professional is matter.. I'll think about it.
And he being gentle, awkward, avoiding... but extra gentle.
Should I take that as gentle 'no'? Though he will leaving current job in a month.
Plz give me advice and any extra comment would thankful