u/Civil-Vermicelli-832

I think I'm speaking for almost all women when I say one mostly guaranteed way to cause a woman to lose interest fast when first messaging....is countless repetitive sending of them back to back. Us women dont find it attractive. We dont understand what makes you guys ever think it is a good idea. "The first 15 messages he sent me in a row just werent doing the job, but something about the 16th one made me realize how much of a catch he was and i immediately felt the desire to actually start responding" says no women ever.

Please.... do yourselves a favor and stop it. It is very unbecoming

Edit: im specifically talking about those initial "hey" messages sent a million times in different ways, in attempt to get that first ever response. Not the way couples text or something in regular conversation.

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