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What’s the secret of looking so young ? I thought you were my age mate . I didn’t have an answer so I copped out and said genes .

But today I looked at my shopping basket , drinks alone had Reload for rehydration and electrolytes and Booch Kombucha for my gut bacteria and wine for good times and also resveratrol for its antioxidant benefits and of course avoiding marej.

And maybe all my walks and my passion in my business and of course very supportive family. Anyway to conclude , I couldn’t say what my secret is , it is likely all of the above and maybe none of the above .

I love my life.

I decided to become a major player in Men’s field . Rn I have 2 men declaring love for me today , getting taken out to dinner by a third , getting bought make up by another . I’ve decided that when a man comes into my space , he must add value in whichever way and in the ways he can afford .

Some of them can afford V8 and their bill is higher , wa Mazda pia siwabagui na pia hao wako na bill zao. Rn if I sit across form you as a man , I am calculating what I can get from you . I am a lover girl but I’ve gotten tired of men getting what they want from me without me getting anything back . Why should I worry about my business bills and entertainment bills and that lipstick I want while you are getting all my goodness and beauty and sometimes pussy ? I am about to hang out a sign.

I am being quite ruthless na sijalu sasa . I give you a price tag , kama huwezi, jitoe.

Nilimpea Kwani ?

I have a pregnancy kit on my bedside table wait for 14 days ndio nijue my fate .

But meantime Leo he had to absolutely show me something so nikaenda kwani so ???? Is it a crime for a girl to go and see ?

I am also ovulating so haki God forgive me for today . After this nitaondokea wan God.

Don’t even ask the reason, sina sababu.

I have done a few shots of Jaegger .

We are drinking soup and eating mutura at a local.

We have a business in common so harmonizing a few things.

Sitampea so help me God 😂

I am in my 40s and I have had the privilege of dating my age mates , men in their fifties and younger guys in their thirties and I have to say aki my age mates are such a let down.

They want to hae you to death and when they put in some effort in regards to chatting (which should be like a good tennis game IMO where we each volley back and forth ) it is to go straight to sex talk . My goodness we are only one text in and they start talking about ‘bed fun’ eew. Guys kindly, what happened to wooing ?

Men in their 50s , looove them. They are in charge and they take care of you and hata discussions za tuma fare hakuna, you will just see money in your Mpesa. This is the age group where you literally suspend your brain when you are with them because they’ve got things covered. Now the problem inakujia kwa ‘the soldier 🤭’. Sijui kama ni too many Whitecaps 😅, the guy refuses to report for duty and when he does, it is to hang his coat and leave 😂.

Now men in their 30s heh where do I start ? They will pamper , they will cook for you, wait on you hand and foot , eeaaaat and kiss every inch of you. Open doors , be affectionate, express their feelings openly. Traditional gender roles for who ? They will clean dishes , clean your clothes and spoil you properly. Then when you are in very deep they will hit you with ‘I don’t believe in marriage ‘ and ‘ I am child free, I don’t plan on having any children’ 😳 😳. I don’t like labels . Why should society put a label on us ? Why should the government be part of this , why does the government police this or that ? I don’t see myself as a husband or a father loh!

It is at this point I started asking , where does my help come from 😂

Any guys here over 40 ?

I also am.

Looking to mingle and go on some cute dates.

Kindly be single and available.

Just have your shit together.

Hey ladies,

Recently changed my settings so that my post and comment history is hidden.

Can anyone kindly visit my profile and see whether you can see any post and comment history ?

Not able to check from my end and I don’t want to use anyone else’s profile .

Also anyone who knows how to delete history, help please. I’ve been deleting one by one , any way to do it with one click ?