u/ClosetedGothAdult

Kinda just a funny story tbh. I'm 18f, he's 19m. Let's call him K. So, I've known K for a couple of years now but we don't really talk much. We met through a mutual friend of ours. Yesterday, we saw each other in person for the first time in a couple of months at my best friends graduation party. We started talking a lot and somehow got to the topic of sexuality. I know I said in the title that I'm a lesbian but I honestly don't know lol. I’ve always known i was into girls, at least to some extent. Not sure about men. So, K started talking about how he's not sure anymore if he is gay. I was like yea, very relatable. So we talked a bit more and well we ended up hooking up. It was honestly really funny because neither of us knew what we were doing. Neither of us has had any experience with the opposite sex before either lol. And, I would say that K is very obviously gay. I mean of course he could be bi or whatever. But, you'd be able to tell if you ever saw him. It was a good experience, though. I didn't mind it. Funny how that turned out lol.

I'm weirdly happy to have a place to share all my in laws antics. So, please enjoy a list of the last seven years of antics from my MIL:

MIL gifted me and her daughter pregnancy tests for Christmas. This was my first Christmas in the family.
I'm ginger so I wear sunscreen liberally. She tells me everytime that sunscreen causes cancer and I should stop. Never mind that her son has literally had skin cancer removed when he was in his twenties
told me breathing techniques would cure my scoliosis
helped us buy a house (which I'm grateful for), but then got mad when we put a downpayment on a house that wasn't next door to hers. Then for the next year, she'd end conversations with "be sure to thank me for the house!" Honestly if I had known this would happen, I don't know if I would have accepted the help.
weighed family members against her pregnant daughter and thought it was funny that her pregnant daughter weighed more than anyone else in the family (husband and I did not participate)
when my husband and I looked into adoption/fostering, she told us that all her friends who adopted and fostered "regretted it" and that we'll just have a "druggy baby." She later gave a half assed apology to us and said she "didn't know what she did that was wrong." When I told her, she doubled down on her statements.
TW: child molestation

When it came out that a cousin had molested his daughter, my husband and I cut him off and decided not to have a relationship with him. MIL claimed I was "tearing the family apart" and needed to "sort out of my priorities" :/ they now invite the cousin to family events and exclude my husband and I

Shout out to my husband for standing up for/with me in all of these situations!

I (lesbian) had sex with my gay (male) friend

What do my very obvious types say about me

A list of antics my MIL has done