Seeing My Juniors Date Gorgeous Girls While I Stay Single Is Messing With My Head?
I’m 21M, 6’2, reasonably good-looking, and in my last year of college. My last relationship ended about two years ago, and I haven’t been in anything serious since.
The weird part is that I genuinely don’t know what my dating life will look like after college. Right now, I keep seeing juniors and younger students getting into relationships with girls I’d consider way out of their league, while I’m just… single. 😭
I know comparison is probably toxic, but sometimes it genuinely gets to me. I’ll see some 18- or 19-year-old junior posting his gorgeous girlfriend and think:
**“Bro, what am I doing wrong?”**
It’s not that I desperately need a relationship. I’m focused on my own life—gym, college, career, and everything else. But there’s still this nagging fear that I’m missing out on the years when dating is supposed to be easiest.
Then there’s the whole “last year of college” thing. Once college ends, meeting people naturally seems like it’ll become much harder.
So, for guys who were single throughout college or went through a long dry spell:
**Did your dating life actually get better after college?**
And how do you stop feeling like you’re falling behind when everyone around you seems to be dating?