u/ColdPhone4834

28M | Real estate | 25% Income bracket

It's been six months since I've been searching for marriage prospects I've seen over 3k profiles on matrimonials talked to over 50 girls most of them have the same issue that I am in tier 2 city and will settle here only and most of the girls don't want that both with or without jobs

So here I am trying one more time if anyone is interested in settling in a tier 2 city

A little Abt me

I'm lean built with a dusky complexion, ambivert, a big time foodie, very straight forward and likes long drives

It's been 3 years that I had brokenup took me 2 year just to accept the fact that she betrayed me

Last year I have dated 3 girls but the intimacy part i don't feel it same way

I loved the way she smelled i loved the taste of her kisses but now after being with other girls I don't get that high

And because of this I'm unable to reach orgasam last time I tried for an hr but nothing

Anyone being in same situation?

I'm talking Abt MBBS pps like is it some kinda elite thing or is it about the profession is as such that non doctors won't be able to live with them

Edit: Cus I want to marry one (28M, Has Real estate Business)

I've had two relationships during which the part where I use to act non chalant like I'm tough I don't care that was when both of my partners admired me

But when I opened up about my insecurities how I really feel Abt certain things I felt they stopped admiring me or I felt they lost respect for me

A friend of mine told me same thing

Is my data set too small or is it really the case?

Lately, I see many people saying they are not “worth it” and that no one will choose them.

I have felt that too.

I tried to change myself just to fit someone else, thinking it would save me from being alone.

But choosing a partner does not work that way.

I have seen friends rush because of fear and pressure. Some are divorced. Some are still in relationships that feel forced.

If you have to become someone else to be chosen, you are not choosing the right partner.

Take your time. Know people for who they truly are, and let them know you as you are.

It is better to be alone for a while than to end up with someone you cannot truly stand beside.