u/Cold_Caterpillar_177

For some context I am a housewife and my husband pays all of the bills.

My mom called me to let me know if I want to go to this concert and I agreed. My partner was asleep during that time. Then he woke up and he started saying how his boys will make fun of him.. How I am doing childish things.

He said that for now he is allowing me to go with my mom. I don’t know how to feel with him not trying to let me.. I don’t know who is in the wrong

Me and my girlfriend started living together 2 years ago. I am 32 and she is 24. In the beginning we both cooked. Eventually we got fed up of cooking and cleaning. We decided to start eating take away grilled food.

This went on for a year. My girlfriend started getting pimples and blamed it on the restaurant place.

She told me she has the idea for us to begin to eat very healthy. I was keen on the idea so I went through with it.

What she meant by healthy is eating bread with honey and butter for lunch and for dinner salad with tomatoes cucumber and feta cheese.

Why on earth would I want to eat this nearly everyday. She keeps saying that her grandparents on the village ate like this and lived until 90. She said if I don’t like it I should eat my own food. Which I partially agree with. I do provide everything for my girlfriend and she does not even want to make me a meal. It just doesn’t make sense. I hear some of my friends saying how their wives make them breakfast and dinner. It makes me so jealous sometimes.

Isn’t this insane? She told me she can cook when we met. She knows at best like 3-5 meals that are done perfectly. Everything else that she makes is not that good and she doesn’t even want to eat it herself.. She is being so picky.