Am I valid in expecting an apology from my bsf?
So basically, I (22F) agreed to watch my friend's cat until further notice because her parents wouldn't allow her to keep the cat at their house. That's not the problem, though. The problem is that my family and I go on vacation every year, and this year was no different. I've been telling my two best friends (20F and 21F) about this trip for months.
About a week before I left, I realized I needed to be more straightforward about her taking her cat back, so I told her she needed to find care for her cat for the seven days I'd be gone. She said it was fine, so I dropped it.
Five days before I left, she told our group chat that she was going out of town with her boyfriend for his birthday. Then, three days before my trip, she told me she still hadn't found anyone to watch her cat. Me, being the pushover that I am, told her the cat could stay at my place for those three days.
Before I left, I realized how frustrated I was because I only needed her to do one thing, and she couldn't even do that. This isn't the first time she's dumped the responsibility of her cat on me or been inconsiderate of my feelings, time, and money.
So I sent her a text explaining why I was frustrated, and I didn't even get an apology.