How do i get my brothers 14m and 15m to stop pissing on the floor/seat in the bathroom?
I’m guessing by the title you can gather I’m not a guy lol. im the oldest out of all my siblings 17f followed up by younger brothers 15m,14m. They have 0 medical reasons for why this would be happening nor are they developmentally delayed in any way. 15m has suspected adhd but not in any major way just the say racist shit and blame it on adhd type. But this has been an ongoing issue for about like 4-5 years or so. It wasn’t quite as bad when they were younger but it just seems to have gotten worse as they have gotten older. Most likely being as they don’t lift the seat anymore. You would think with age it would get better but apparently not.
To preface we have 3 bathrooms. 2 my brothers are allowed to use and the 1 that they still use because they’re lazy. The reason they aren’t allowed to use that bathroom is because of the reason im posting this.
So half of the time when i go to the bathroom there will be piss either on the seat, floor or both. Thats if it hasn’t dried up yet. I bet a good majority of the missing is from them pissing in the dark without a light. I only know this as i’ve seen them walk out of the bathroom door open, light off, middle of the night, as im about to walk in and there is just piss everywhere. At this point its like they have to know there doing it but are to lazy to clean it up or something i don’t know. Another time i was chilling in my room late at night ( i live in an attic. no door ) and i heard 15m get up to use the bathroom and all i heard was the splashing sounds of pee hitting tile floor. I live with 3 boys ( my father included) so at this point i know what peeing into a ceramic bowl sounds like and it was not those sounds. So i shoot downstairs and you guessed it half of this boys piss on the floor some in the bowl rest on the seat. he didn’t even bother to turn on the light, so bro didn’t even know what happened. typical. So i ask him to clean it up and he does and it wouldn’t be that big of an issue if they missed and just cleaned it up but they don’t.
its just starting to get really frustrating because i can only throw up in one bathroom because the rest stink to much like piss for me to even put my head near them. The one i will throw up into also smells of piss because of them but it’s way more manageable. The only bathroom on the bottom floor smells like a men’s public restroom 23/6 just because of 2 boys. Its also starting to get to the point where im accidentally pissing on the floor while trying to avoid their piss on the floor, seat or both. Like i could go to another bathroom which i do most of the time, but the other half when i do use them is because im about to piss myself. other girls out there you know. Unlike them i do clean up after myself because i’m not absolutely fucking disgusting and also flush the toilet which is something they our also incapable of. Not only that is there is no piss on the toilet seat i bet you that it’s sticky because they always are. honestly i wonder why.
But it had gotten to the point that the only bathroom downstairs ( aka their toilet ) my mum has basically stopped cleaning it. Don’t worry it does get a clean one a week and isn’t that bad, but my mum had to bleach the toilets once a day because of them. She still technically “has to” but chooses not to as they cant keep it clean. The skirting board ( aka trim ) around the back of the toilet seat it black and smells so strongly of urine no matter how much its cleaned the smell never goes away.
Countless times have i and my mum tried to have conversations about it with them and they always say. its not me i don’t do it anymore, or yeah i will or it wasn’t me. if not that its just laughing about it. At this point im just getting fed up because it would be nice to have one bathroom that doesn’t smell like piss. so if anyone has any suggestions of how to make them stop i beg please let me know. if they don’t stop i will be shaming them on tiktok. cough cough james and george, and tagging their main profiles as a form of humiliation for still needing to be potty trained. also is anyone else siblings having these same issues that are this age or just me?
( not fixing any grammar i just want to sleep )
TLDR: brothers are basically toddler, can’t aim for shit, piss on everything in the bathrooms. that intern piss me off, wont stop after many talks.