I need help and advice.
I... Don't know where to start
I believe I made a post about this situation a couple weeks ago, I calmed down and deleted it because I honestly believed kt wouldn't get this bad
My love has been, burnt out for a couple weeks now. She says she is fine, she days she doesn't need help but.
There's no warmth in her words anymore, and we have barely spent time together.
Fyi we are long distance and we have been through 5 months.
She is autistic, and she has gone through really stressful exams, I made sure to investigate about this for a bit, but well I am no expert sadly.
I can tell something IS wrong, but she won't tell me what and I can't force it. I attributed it to exams but... Things aren't getting better after that, and it's been a couple days, almost a week.
At first she was oh so wonderful, wanting to watch and do things almost every single night, until time to sleep. And even if she couldn't flirt with me properly she tried her best when being loving.
Now she barely talks about her day, just some things here and there with the hyperfixations she has and knows I like too. Sometimes ignores me, and every plan I try to make, she rejects, says maybe, or we just spend less than an hour with her on mute until she goes off go just, stare on her phone or laptop(?). i wouldn't know, she doesn't tell me.
I fear this is what we are going to become permantly from now on. I've wanted to talk about this for a while, but I can't find the moment, I need her in a call, because in message she sometimes deflects or ignores and I fear she will go away if I do ask.
But she goes to some calls with some of her friends and plays games with them. She told me it's because she is emptionally absent then but, it still hurts.
I simply... Fear we are going to be the opposite of how we started....
TL;DR. My autistic girlfriend has gone extremely cold, to the point we haven't shared much in a while and as yandere this hurts, too much, because she says things are fine, and they aren't.
Pls, can anyone here, offer their help?