(They loved you until they got to know you deeply and realized they had no idea how to handle you)
I hate how lonely life can feel when you have no one to randomly talk to
Disclaimer: This post is based solely on my personal experience. I’m just sharing my thoughts and experiences briefly, and it’s not meant to represent everyone’s experience. Also, all the memes in this post were made by me
I'm honestly so demotivated atp in trying to look for my dream girl, or even then, just having her randomly appear sometime in my life. It sucks cause like, I wanna be totally obsessed with someone again and truly be an amazing partner but I feel like it's never gonna come.. I feel like me being a trans lesbian doesn't make it any easier but I think that's just interalized self-hatred talking. I guess I'll keep holding out hope that one day I'll be happy in a relationship with someone I'm truly infatuated with, but I don't think it's gonna be anytime soon unfortunately..
Okay weird case of venting but like since a few day I got in a relationship with let's say the girl of my life.
We've been friend for like maybe soon 8 years, she rejected me a first time a whole ago, but I always been transparent about my feeling and the way I feel kinda possessive even in friendship (I love her so much I want to be the center of her life god).
After we both transition and a bit of teasing I proposed to her like that we make out and she said yes.
How can I say that I was in heaven... Star in the eyes a dopamine rush so good I could faint. And we discussed a bit because i added something on my discord profile basically "I love you [choosen name]" thinking she would love to see her chosen name use and everything but then she was like "I think it more as a situation ship."
I know my behaviors are bad and I hate myself for it, but I felt so bad like I was perpetually falling. I gave her my everything, she's my world the single catalyst of my love the one that let me actually understand the thin barrier between friendship and love and I can't even feel like she's my girlfriend.
But every since then she's still as usual so am i, but I know it's because of my insecurity but I just want her to say that she loves me, that even if it's only by a small thing I'm part of her world and I can't feel like that despite knowing it's the case. I may know her even better than all her other friend and parents.
I'm the only one she can be 100% transparent with in everything even when it's about intimacy and I just don't know how to do... It's my first time in a sort of relationship and I'm scared of losing her.
Sauce of the art: https://x.com/yulmu\_1/status/2065296495944007725
I... Don't know where to start
I believe I made a post about this situation a couple weeks ago, I calmed down and deleted it because I honestly believed kt wouldn't get this bad
My love has been, burnt out for a couple weeks now. She says she is fine, she days she doesn't need help but.
There's no warmth in her words anymore, and we have barely spent time together.
Fyi we are long distance and we have been through 5 months.
She is autistic, and she has gone through really stressful exams, I made sure to investigate about this for a bit, but well I am no expert sadly.
I can tell something IS wrong, but she won't tell me what and I can't force it. I attributed it to exams but... Things aren't getting better after that, and it's been a couple days, almost a week.
At first she was oh so wonderful, wanting to watch and do things almost every single night, until time to sleep. And even if she couldn't flirt with me properly she tried her best when being loving.
Now she barely talks about her day, just some things here and there with the hyperfixations she has and knows I like too. Sometimes ignores me, and every plan I try to make, she rejects, says maybe, or we just spend less than an hour with her on mute until she goes off go just, stare on her phone or laptop(?). i wouldn't know, she doesn't tell me.
I fear this is what we are going to become permantly from now on. I've wanted to talk about this for a while, but I can't find the moment, I need her in a call, because in message she sometimes deflects or ignores and I fear she will go away if I do ask.
But she goes to some calls with some of her friends and plays games with them. She told me it's because she is emptionally absent then but, it still hurts.
I simply... Fear we are going to be the opposite of how we started....
TL;DR. My autistic girlfriend has gone extremely cold, to the point we haven't shared much in a while and as yandere this hurts, too much, because she says things are fine, and they aren't.
Pls, can anyone here, offer their help?
Finally.
I Finally found somebody who understands.
They get it.
They understand how I feel and are willing to work with it. They don't have a fetish. They're not just looking at me as a piece of meat. They understand how I feel and they Love me.
And they know how I can be... protective. They know that I'm the type to hug for a little too long and Not Let Go. They know that if they try to flee, I'll make sure they never forget my face.
And they love me for that.
Not despite it—because of it.
They've been abandoned. They've been treated badly.
They feel the same.
And we can live our lives together, clinging and creeping and promising our souls to each other, and never need to be apart.
I'm So HAPPY!
It’s 1:49 AM should I walk to the store and get an Arizona Ice Tea or Stay inside drink water and play marvel rivals?
this is mainly about real life but also online, i suppose. >_<
like where do yall find someone to be just as obsessed with you as you are them? do i just need to get very lucky? at this point, they don’t have to be obsessed with me, ill do alll the work, they just don’t have to mind it :(
im tired of stalking, being possessive, and creating these delusions when i know my feelings arent going to be reciprocated </3
i can’t keep doing this to myself and it sucks that the likelihood of me finding someone who would appreciate what i do is like in the negatives っ ̯ -｡
luck is not on my side… ever and i just wanna hear about some of y’all’s experiences with this <//3
She's all the way in another country and lives at home still and is disabled and in uni, she messaged me that she attacked her parent and now they may disown her and that was her last message for a few hours, I'm worried sick and my heart hurts
So i’m a bit divided on this subreddit. On one hand I resonate with the obsessive tendencies that occur between both partners, as I love clingy love. But I can’t help but feel the more controlling aspects like limiting their friend group, or not letting them even talk to someone of the opposite sex is very toxic no?
What does dating a yandere actually look like? Is there a healthy way of actually approaching that style of dating?
Also, doesn’t a true yandere value their partner’s happiness at all costs? So wouldn’t letting them still be themselves and explore the world be an example of that? After all, it’s the monogamous nature that’s so addicting no?
Your partner can be free, while also being very devoted. Personally I don’t mind someone obsessing over me, i’d just give that energy right back. But I still need the freedom to discover my individuality.
Go dm me pls
Would do the exact same in that scenario. Frick cheaters / Liars.
I found the person I want to marry and be owned by, they left the internet but I want to meet them again and give them the best I've got
I'm going insane. Am I asking for too much? Am I too picky or is this OBJECTIVELY weird?
Mind you, this is the type of guys that always dm girls after we post on the yandere subs. In their shoes, you can't have POSSIBLY thought this was a good idea, no????
All details and usernames censored for anonymity (except for my own username). There was more being said, I just included the most relevant/recent screenshots.
Edit: noticed I misspelled the word "thread" and it's killing me.
Do hookups confuse anyone else here, generally? Genuine question. I don’t understand just how people manage to hook up, or similar things like FWB. It seems wrong to me, giving sex out freely to people just because there’s no commitment. I wouldn’t be able to bring myself to do it.
Give me one non-negotiable rule you’d set in a relationship, and I’ll tell you whether I can live with it or not. 🌷
I don’t mean it disrespectfully I’m genuinely just curious, and I’m kinda maybe taking it into consideration too. I just wanna know if it’s something I could actually handle.
He told me how much he loves me and how good I make him feel when he's with me made me so happy. And he was so cute for gushing those feelings out to me. Ahh I love him so much. I'm so glad that we're together and being with him just seems so natural as if it makes sense for him to be in my life and without would just feel wrong. I'm glad that he feels safer with me and he enjoys being with me. He deserves so much and I want to make him happy