u/Comfortable_Card6917

Asalaamu alaikum,

In sha Allah you all are well.

I have started my search again and it is emotionally and mentally draining.

I am including what I am looking for down below (please only contact if you born and bred in the UK):

I am looking for someone who is grounded in his deen, someone who prays his five daily prayers and is sincerely striving to strengthen his relationship with Allah. A man who makes a genuine effort to embody the character and manners of the Prophet ﷺ in how he carries himself and treats others.

I value a man who has a growth mindset, someone with vision, ambition, and a sense of purpose for his future. It’s important to me that he takes care of himself holistically, physically, mentally, emotionally, and spiritually, and is self-aware enough to reflect, grow, and communicate with maturity.

Being active within the community and giving back is something I deeply respect. I’m also looking for someone who was born and raised in the West, as I believe it helps create a shared understanding and outlook on life. A love for children and a balanced approach to culture over cultural rigidity are also important qualities to me.

I appreciate transparency, clarity, and intention from the very beginning. My intention is to get to know someone solely for the purpose of marriage, so if I come across as slightly reserved initially, it is simply out of a desire to maintain Islamic boundaries, not a reflection of my personality as a whole.

To keep things respectful and smooth for both of us, I would prefer a structured approach to getting to know each other (though this can be flexible):

1. Initial baseline questions
2. Voice call
3. Exchanging pictures
4. Meeting in a public setting
   Everything will be done under my walis supervision to strictly maintain halal boundaries.

Dealbreakers:
If you are not consistent in your five daily prayers, or you are involved in smoking, drugs, pornography, or any other ongoing haram habits, then this is not something I am willing to overlook. Please do not proceed.

I am not compatible with emotional immaturity in any form. If you struggle to regulate your emotions, avoid accountability, or carry a consistently negative or scarcity-driven mindset, then we are not aligned.

Arrogance, anger issues, or narcissistic traits are qualities I will not entertain. I value humility, emotional stability, and strong character, and I am only open to someone who embodies these traits.

I am intentional about who I allow into my life, and I take these standards seriously. If you do not meet them, I kindly ask that you respect my boundaries and not pursue further.

Thank you for reading. I wish you the best in your search.

PS. I will share further information about myself through DMs bi'idhnillah

May Allah give us the ability to draw near to Him in these blessed days aameen

Asalaamu alaikum,

In sha Allah you all are well.

I have started my search again and it is emotionally and mentally draining.

I am including what I am looking for down below (please only contact if you born and bred in the UK):

I am looking for someone who is grounded in his deen, someone who prays his five daily prayers and is sincerely striving to strengthen his relationship with Allah. A man who makes a genuine effort to embody the character and manners of the Prophet ﷺ in how he carries himself and treats others.

I value a man who has a growth mindset, someone with vision, ambition, and a sense of purpose for his future. It’s important to me that he takes care of himself holistically, physically, mentally, emotionally, and spiritually, and is self-aware enough to reflect, grow, and communicate with maturity.

Being active within the community and giving back is something I deeply respect. I’m also looking for someone who was born and raised in the West, as I believe it helps create a shared understanding and outlook on life. A love for children and a balanced approach to culture over cultural rigidity are also important qualities to me.

I appreciate transparency, clarity, and intention from the very beginning. My intention is to get to know someone solely for the purpose of marriage, so if I come across as slightly reserved initially, it is simply out of a desire to maintain Islamic boundaries, not a reflection of my personality as a whole.

To keep things respectful and smooth for both of us, I would prefer a structured approach to getting to know each other (though this can be flexible):

1. Initial baseline questions
2. Voice call
3. Exchanging pictures
4. Meeting in a public setting
   Everything will be done under my walis supervision to strictly maintain halal boundaries.

Dealbreakers:
If you are not consistent in your five daily prayers, or you are involved in smoking, drugs, pornography, or any other ongoing haram habits, then this is not something I am willing to overlook. Please do not proceed.

I am not compatible with emotional immaturity in any form. If you struggle to regulate your emotions, avoid accountability, or carry a consistently negative or scarcity-driven mindset, then we are not aligned.

Arrogance, anger issues, or narcissistic traits are qualities I will not entertain. I value humility, emotional stability, and strong character, and I am only open to someone who embodies these traits.

I am intentional about who I allow into my life, and I take these standards seriously. If you do not meet them, I kindly ask that you respect my boundaries and not pursue further.

Thank you for reading. I wish you the best in your search.

PS. I will share further information about myself through DMs bi'idhnillah

May Allah give us the ability to draw near to Him in these blessed days aameen

Asalaamu alaikum,

In sha Allah you all are well.

I have started my search again and it is emotionally and mentally draining.

I am including what I am looking for down below (please only contact if you born and bred in the UK):

I am looking for someone who is grounded in his deen, someone who prays his five daily prayers and is sincerely striving to strengthen his relationship with Allah. A man who makes a genuine effort to embody the character and manners of the Prophet ﷺ in how he carries himself and treats others.

I value a man who has a growth mindset, someone with vision, ambition, and a sense of purpose for his future. It’s important to me that he takes care of himself holistically, physically, mentally, emotionally, and spiritually, and is self-aware enough to reflect, grow, and communicate with maturity.

Being active within the community and giving back is something I deeply respect. I’m also looking for someone who was born and raised in the West, as I believe it helps create a shared understanding and outlook on life. A love for children and a balanced approach to culture over cultural rigidity are also important qualities to me.

I appreciate transparency, clarity, and intention from the very beginning. My intention is to get to know someone solely for the purpose of marriage, so if I come across as slightly reserved initially, it is simply out of a desire to maintain Islamic boundaries, not a reflection of my personality as a whole.

To keep things respectful and smooth for both of us, I would prefer a structured approach to getting to know each other (though this can be flexible):

1. Initial baseline questions
2. Voice call
3. Exchanging pictures
4. Meeting in a public setting
   Everything will be done under my walis supervision to strictly maintain halal boundaries.

Dealbreakers:
If you are not consistent in your five daily prayers, or you are involved in smoking, drugs, pornography, or any other ongoing haram habits, then this is not something I am willing to overlook. Please do not proceed.

I am not compatible with emotional immaturity in any form. If you struggle to regulate your emotions, avoid accountability, or carry a consistently negative or scarcity-driven mindset, then we are not aligned.

Arrogance, anger issues, or narcissistic traits are qualities I will not entertain. I value humility, emotional stability, and strong character, and I am only open to someone who embodies these traits.

I am intentional about who I allow into my life, and I take these standards seriously. If you do not meet them, I kindly ask that you respect my boundaries and not pursue further.

Thank you for reading. I wish you the best in your search.

PS. I will share further information about myself through DMs bi'idhnillah

May Allah give us the ability to draw near to Him in these blessed days aameen