What’s the point:(
Has anyone ever just given everything up. I mean everything. Like there is no point to keep fighting a a horrible vindictive ex about children and property anymore because they are just way better at this game than you.
There are not a single version where the abusive ex is alive and demands their rights over children where you become happy and thrive. I have never heard of not one. Especially not when you have to start everything again from scratch, somewhere you don’t want to live but are forced to if you want to see your kids, with no family, no friends, no job, no money - while the ex is enjoying the fruits of all your hard work and labour, including children.. some how, they just seem to keep getting away with absolutely everything, they say and do anything they like, and even if you prove all the lies etc - it does not matter because hey - it’s all just adult conflict… nobody protects you from the actual emotional abuse you have endured and have to keep enduring for as long as you are alive. It’s like at the point where he doesn’t even have to do or say much at all, you just want to vomit from the thought of knowing that he is still alive, still tormenting, still getting away with everything…
Maybe children are better off learning from a man like him than seeing mother suffer indefinitely. Because let’s be honest - rarely a woman whose been abused and destroyed and not protected by the court - become happy strong healthy woman. And that’s all you wanted actually, just some peace and freedom and to love and care for your children, get what you deserve from your hard work, and have him be made equally accountable and responsible.
But that’s not how life works. It is hell.
The world is a shit place, nobody and nothing protects us from evil. The world is actually a horrible place with people hurting each other and the planet, animals, everything, once you’ve seen it you can’t unsee it anymore. What’s the point of living? Even if your life is stable finally, how can you still sleep ar night if there is still so much suffering everywhere else and you know you can’t change fuckall. Like we are not living for ourselves, yet we can’t just go and die either because then it’s OMG OMG panic what do we do, but where is the help before things get so wrong???? Who can make things right? Nobody, nothing will. I have always known this but wanted to give it a try, using hope and positive thinking… clearly it’s just for idiots.