u/Commercial-Smell-920

I was wondering if anyone has Mrs. Estrada because she refuses to give 100s on writing assignments. Her feedback is always vague, and whenever I look at it, it’s always things I already included in the assignment. If I try to contact her about it, she just repeats the same feedback instead of helping me understand what I actually did wrong.

She recently flagged one of my assignments, and after I redid it, she gave me another 0, saying I submitted the same thing again and that she’s going to send a ticket to academic integrity if the third attempt gets flagged (btw, my Turnitin is a 48%). She also won’t let me call her to prove I didn’t use AI. On top of that, she never gives 100s on DBAs, even when everything is correct. It’s honestly getting really frustrating.

ok i really need advice bc this is actually making me feel sick

my brother is in england rn and im at his place in the US watching his house and using his laptop (he said i could). earlier he kept texting me asking if i logged into his account and i said no bc i hadn’t yet but he kept asking multiple times which felt weird

later i logged in bc he’s the admin and i needed to restart the laptop. while i was on there a message popped up and i wasn’t trying to snoop but it was literally right there so i saw it

he’s been texting another girl. they were talking about how they miss each other, have hooked up multiple times, he wants to fly her out when he gets back, and he even said he shouldn’t have gotten married

he IS married and as far as i know his wife has no idea

it gets worse. this isn’t some random girl. he knew her BEFORE he got married. and from what i saw he basically told her he didn’t choose her because he wants a wife who stays home, cooks, cleans, takes care of kids, etc and doesn’t want another medical career in the family (they’re both in that field). so he knowingly married someone else while still having feelings for her and is now cheating anyway

also for context, the past couple months he’s been acting like my dad. telling me i need to “respect my parents,” putting screentime limits on my phone, setting rules for me that even my parents don’t care about, and influencing them to be stricter with me. he’s also very religious and constantly brings it up, which makes this feel even more hypocritical because our religion literally prohibits cheating or any relationship outside of marriage

now here’s why this feels impossible. my family HATES me. like genuinely. no matter what happens i somehow get blamed even when im not involved. and im the only girl in a very traditional family so they already act like they can control me and hold me to a completely different standard. if i say anything about this i already know how it’ll go they’ll say i was snooping, make me the problem, and defend him

and it wouldn’t just be my immediate family. his wife’s family is really close with ours so this would turn into a huge situation and somehow still be “my fault” for exposing it

so now i feel stuck. i feel bad knowing this and doing nothing but i also feel like if i speak up im basically volunteering to have my entire family turn on me even more than they already do

do i confront him first? do i tell his wife? do i stay out of it to protect myself even tho it feels wrong?

what would you do in this situation