u/Commercial_Wallaby22

Hi y'all! So uh, I think I want to detransition.

Context: I started transitioning 8 years ago, (I'll be 30 this month) back then I was a lost, I had just had a really big parental death, I was In the process of dropping out of college and I had WAY too much other life things going on. I had always been on the more feminine side growing up, but before this I had never actually considered transitioning and looking back now that I'm more than a few years in, I think I rushed too quickly Into the decision.

Lately, I've been having a lot of really hard and honest conversations with myself : Why did I transition? Why do I feel more comfortable when I'm barely putting effort into how I look when I go out/to work? Why do I not care that ive forgotten to take my hrt for 2 weeks? And all the answers I'm coming up with seem to be pointing me at detransitioning.

I never had THE surgery or FFS, tho when I lived in California it was way too easy for me to get a BA covered by insurance and I did and idek what that looks like for getting them removed now that I'm in a different state 🫠🫠 not even to mention the social aspect of it all, I'm actually quite a bit more nervous to come out as boy than I was to come out as trans? Like idk how to make sense of all this

For any of my MtFtM Detrans redditors on here, do you have any advice or words of wisdom?

Hi y'all! So uh, I think I want to detransition.

Context: I started transitioning 8 years ago, (I'll be 30 this month) back then I was a lost, I had just had a really big parental death, I was In the process of dropping out of college and I had WAY too much other life things going on. I had always been on the more feminine side growing up, but before this I had never actually considered transitioning and looking back now that I'm more than a few years in, I think I rushed too quickly Into the decision.

Lately, I've been having a lot of really hard and honest conversations with myself : Why did I transition? Why do I feel more comfortable when I'm barely putting effort into how I look when I go out/to work? Why do I not care that ive forgotten to take my hrt for 2 weeks? And all the answers I'm coming up with seem to be pointing me at detransitioning.

I never had THE surgery or FFS, tho when I lived in California it was way too easy for me to get a BA covered by insurance and I did and idek what that looks like for getting them removed now that I'm in a different state 🫠🫠 not even to mention the social aspect of it all, I'm actually quite a bit more nervous to come out as boy than I was to come out as trans? Like idk how to make sense of all this

For any of my MtFtM Detrans redditors on here, do you have any advice or words of wisdom?