Am I in the wrong, boyfriend says im too needy
My boyfriend called me needy. Here is why. ( We live in the same flat) I knock on his door occasionally and talk to him and then ask for a hug and a kiss, sometimes the hug or kiss isn't to my satisfaction so I ask for more. Apprently asking is being needy and dependent? And overwhemeling?
He said when I come in when he is focussed on a task it annoys him as I bring his focus away from it, I totally understand him saying that when it comes to work or school, but when playing video games or watching something?
the reason I come into his room is I miss him, and want to spend time with him. Like idk girl.
Even though he said that I know im not. He doesn't initate plans or little times to hangout with me. even though we had an arguement about it together.
All I want to do is spend time with him :/ I would argue that Im simply just wanting to connect with my boyfriend in these moments
Dont get me wrong I understand people need space and their me time. But I feel like i've become a very low prioty. I asked him last week if we could watch a movie together he said no as he wanted to play video games, fair enough. I ask today, no because he has to finish an assigment, but then I look on steam and hes playing video games!
He said he has very little free time but like if u have free time to play video games for hours can't you spend just a little bit of it with me?
I know thats how he relaxes as I play video games too, but it makes me feel like a super low priority.
I think this is complete bull, there is no way this is needy.