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Okay so ive had my boyfriend for 2 years almost 3 and i feel like we do not belong together anymore.

Especially since our japan trip, we’ve been there w his best friend and i got annoyed because we kept up on just sitting inside the apartment instead of doing something together (first japan trip btw) and then i said okay ill go out alone because i dont wanna just sit around doing nothing all day.

And thats the part where i was also left alone (theres more to the story but its to much)

I also try to talk about problems/stuff that annoys me as much as i can but he only gives plain answers and tries to cool me down but he never changes anything.

Like i love sitting around at home but i also love hoing outside but he never comes w me. Only when i really beg him to.

Theres even more but like i said i wanna keep it short.

The problem is i want to break up i am turning 19 in 3 months, i have my whole life still ahead of me, but i dont know how to even explain my family then especially my dad because in my 2 other past relationships he always took the side of the guy, and it bugs me that he just gives me all my fault and tells me i should be happy that even someone would want to date me yk.

And my mom already said that if i ever have a new relationship they wont accept the guy like they are/did w my current bf.

Its to much for my head and ive never been the one to break up, it was always the guys.

Thanks for reading i really only need advice and maybe help on what i should do, i thought abt making such a post somewhere for awhile now because i tried getting help from my mom but she isnt really great help and im still scared to tell my dad about what im thinking atm.

(Repost from myself)

Okay so ive had my boyfriend for 2 years almost 3 and i feel like we do not belong together anymore.

Especially since our japan trip, we’ve been there w his best friend and i got annoyed because we kept up on just sitting inside the apartment instead of doing something together (first japan trip btw) and then i said okay ill go out alone because i dont wanna just sit around doing nothing all day.

And thats the part where i was also left alone (theres more to the story but its to much)

I also try to talk about problems/stuff that annoys me as much as i can but he only gives plain answers and tries to cool me down but he never changes anything.

Like i love sitting around at home but i also love hoing outside but he never comes w me. Only when i really beg him to.

Theres even more but like i said i wanna keep it short.

The problem is i want to break up i am turning 19 in 3 months, i have my whole life still ahead of me, but i dont know how to even explain my family then especially my dad because in my 2 other past relationships he always took the side of the guy, and it bugs me that he just gives me all my fault and tells me i should be happy that even someone would want to date me yk.

And my mom already said that if i ever have a new relationship they wont accept the guy like they are/did w my current bf.

Its to much for my head and ive never been the one to break up, it was always the guys.

Thanks for reading i really only need advice and maybe help on what i should do, i thought abt making such a post somewhere for awhile now because i tried getting help from my mom but she isnt really great help and im still scared to tell my dad about what im thinking atm.