Recently in week 3 of being discarded, he called, but I didn’t answer. Later I see my sandals right outside of my garage door (He took them and i didn’t want them back but ig decided to give it back to me anyways).
Then a few days later he called and I answered like an hour later. I asked “u called?” and he said “it was an accident.” Why couldn’t he just send like a text message to address it?
do you think it’s breadcrumbing?
My ex-boyfriend would break up with me over like the dumbest things. One time, he made a deal that I buy the movie tickets and he pays for the food. Before we went to the theater, he went to the gas station and bought beer.
When we were going to the theater, he said, can you give me your card and I said no because we made a deal (mind you he bought beer….). He was trying to avoid our conversation by going to the bathroom and when he came out, he said he’s not gonna buy food and I said I wanted to go home.
He starts yelling and cussing at me once we get into the car. Threatens this whole breakup thing and at the time, I was paying more than he was. He would just spend his money on alcohol or vapes.
He would constantly throw the breakup word anytime we were in an argument. I finally had enough and accepted it the breakup. “I was always going to leave you when you left to go for the military” I said it out of anger. Afterwards, he said “I have a date this Monday.” But then later said it wasn’t true and I know it wasn’t.
A few days we hatched it out and I thought OK we’re back together.
But then he broke up with me again and official this time. Even after all the convincing and begging, I was so hurt and blindsided that I said those words to him again. I regretted those words because even though he hurt me so much mentally I wanted to hurt him back.
I sometimes think if I never said that that maybe we could’ve been together still
I’m constantly in this back-and-forth of moving on and letting out but I do miss him a lot. When I think about the fact that I have to delete those photos in my hidden of us, I get scared. I don’t want to delete those yet.
I don’t plan to talk to anybody for a while, but it’s sort of pains me that I have to let that go. It’s almost been a month so obviously I’m still fresh and new to this, but it’s really difficult.
It’s been almost 3 weeks since he broke up with me and I remember the day he broke up with me, he was trying to give me my sandals. He took them and I didn’t want them back. I didn’t care for them at all. Today he called. I didn’t pick up and I looked outside and I recognize his car driving off.
I went on for a drive to clear my mind, and I realized in the driveway the sandals.
Today I was finally realizing this wasn’t a good relationship and moving forward. I thought today was a steppingstone of being more happy and truly getting over it. Now, I’m in a set of shock and crying about it. I don’t know why I was sort of hoping he called because he wanted to talk.
This isn’t the first time he called me, randomly he called about our Costco card that I literally removed him from, but ask about is his credit card information still on it which no…