u/Competitive-Stress85

I just started this new job and not even a week into me starting this job they had me close alone. I’m not entirely alone because the cooks are always in the back still working but I’ve never closed front of house on my own before until this past week. This particular day i was told would be super busy, we have a drink special thats super popular and it gets super busy around this particular day. This is my first full week working this job and they decided to leave me working alone on a day that they knew would be super busy. I don’t know if I’m in the wrong for being upset or if this is just what it is for front of the house work?

I’ve started working a new job 2 weeks ago and I’ve been thinking about calling off for a day after my third week. But I worry that it might be too soon. I’m used to never calling off work so I don’t truly know the appropriate times to call off. Also I work as a cashier in a small restaurant.

Sorry for the title, I’m honestly finding a hard way to seek help with this question. My bf (m27) has been going through a difficult time for the past couple of months. He’s had a lot going on in a short span of time, from almost losing his job and apt and pet health issues. I’ve been trying my best to help him out and be there for him. I love him, I love him a lot but my issues is that his number one outlet is playing video games. I knew he was a gamer, I love that he has a favorite hobby but it does bother me that sometimes when he’s going through something he shuts himself out and spends hours playing video games. I’ve tried talking to him, that I don’t think it’s healthy that he spends all day playing video games. It’s gotten to a point that he won’t message me for hours or spend time with me because he’s on the game all day. I don’t know what to do. I love him and I don’t want to end things but I’ve felt like I’ve hit a wall. I would feel guilty ending things when he’s going through a tough time.

I’m honestly finding a hard way to seek help with this question. My bf (m27) has been going through a difficult time for the past couple of months. He’s had a lot going on in a short span of time, from almost losing his job and apt and pet health issues. I’ve been trying my best to help him out and be there for him. I love him, I love him a lot but my issues is that his number one outlet is playing video games. I knew he was a gamer, I love that he has a favorite hobby but it does bother me that sometimes when he’s going through something he shuts himself out and spends hours playing video games. I’ve tried talking to him, that I don’t think it’s healthy that he spends all day playing video games. It’s gotten to a point that he won’t message me for hours or spend time with me because he’s on the game all day. I don’t know what to do. I love him and I don’t want to end things but I’ve felt like I’ve hit a wall. I would feel guilty ending things when he’s going through a tough time.