u/CompetitiveTreat5832

Hi everyone,

So I tested positive for mono almost 2 months ago now. My main symptoms have been insane fatigue and brain fog as well as trouble concentrating.

The thing is I am also prone to low ferritin and losing a lot of hair but my recent results show that my ferritin is 65. That is good however I do wonder if this number if inflated due to the inflammation mono causes.

Just wanted to see if anyone else has experienced the fatigue with mono and if they can provide some insight or things they did that helped. Thanks!

Hey girls,

So I have a very embarrassing confession. I spent the past couple of months obsessing over a guy I used to like who reappeared in my life and was showing me obvious signs of interest but wasn’t doing anything about it. I didn’t chase him but mentally I was obsessing too much.

The other day I decided to go to an event hoping to run into him. And he was not there but you know what ended up happening? I ended up connecting with someone who is 20x more successful and more obvious about his interest. This individual ended up being a CEO.

All I’m going to say ladies is please please stop obsessing over these guys. It’s truly not worth it. While you’re obsessing over one man another man might just pass you by! I’m an emotional & analytical girl so it’s really hard for me but I learned the hard way.

Do not waste your pretty! Especially if you’re leveled up and have pretty privilege, it’s the dumbest thing to obsesses over one man, because you can literally find another one tomorrow. Also talk to more guys! Starting conversations is not that deep because how else are you going to connect. Lastly use your youth, looks & time wisely. A reminder to myself first and you all 💋💋💋

Hi everyone,

So for context I’m 24F & I was severely anemic around March of this year ferritin 2 hemoglobin 7.6 I finally got an infed iron infusion and my levels got higher ferritin increased to 66.

I just did labs and my ferritin is 11, and hemoglobin is 13. I’m always tired, Brain fog and anxious and I do not feel normal what so ever. Do you guys think I should get another iron infusion? I’m just not sure because my hemoglobin is high. Thanks!

Hi everyone,

So I was supposed to start a role mid June however they were still waiting on my interim clearance so my start date was pushed back. I got interim now but it’s been a week and I haven’t heard back from the company or recruitment so I’m wondering if this is something I should be concerned about and If my offer might get rescinded. If anyone can provide their input. Thanks

Hey girls,

So I ran into this guy that was in my class from uni at a networking event. He went out of his way to approach me even when I was kind of ignoring him and he remembered a lot about me. At one point a very pretty girl was flirting with him and trying to get his IG/Linkedin but he did not give it to her. He is a pretty successful tech guy but he seems shy and inexperienced with women. Anyways, the night ended w/o us exchanging contacts and I am wondering if I should follow him on IG or try to connect?

Hi girls,

So I’m 25 and my goal is to get married soon. For context I come from more of a conservative background where the man is the provider and you save yourself before marriage etc. I follow the rules but at the same time I am very hypergamous and only want to get married if he is a provider & well off.

My family is not rich by any means but my dad knows so many rich and upper middle class people since he has a massive social life and is very likable.

The other day for example he took me to a graduation party and he introduced me to an old family friend who has a son who makes a lot of money in tech.

I guess my question is how do I even bring this topic up with my dad? I also don’t think he cares about the financial status of the man I marry so he might bring me terrible prospects so not sure how to maneuver this in a way that ensures I get a financially stable provider husband.

If anyone can give me their input thanks🩷

Hey everyone,

So I am in the process of completing my SF 86 as a derived citizen who automatically gained citizenship through my parents since I was under 18 years old.

I was planning on applying for the N600 but since the wait time is so long I was told I could show the security clearance investigator my receipt & that would hopefully help me get an interim clearance faster. I need an interim clearance to start my job

Does anyone know if this is a method that works. If someone who is familiar with the process can help provide their input I would appreciate it.

Hi everyone,

So I am completing my sf 86 and I was wondering if I should list the family business on my resume that was never payed? It's technically not a real job because I never got money but I have listed on my resume because I gained experience through it.

I also worked like one month at a coffee shop received a 1099 and another three months for seasonal job that was never taxes bc I made so little.

Just wondering if I should also list these things and if anyone knows more than me!