u/Complete-Morning393

Colorado. My husband and I are in the process of setting up our 18 yr old only kids SNT and wills. Autism, physical & learning disabilities. They are currently doing post HS transition program and taking 1 comm college class. Not sure of LT independent living. We have co-guardianship. All our family is out of state. Husbands siblings are in late 60’s. I have younger 1/2 bro out of state w/ younger kids. We are thinking best guardians would be local friends with kids similar age who are like family. If we die the transition & ongoing will be a lot. Doctors appts for all their specialists, mental healthy therapy, etc. Can we list in our will an amount to be paid to them either one time or ongoing for the additional load. I’m anticipating we will revise the will as the child becomes more independent.

My only child with some intellectual & physical disabilities graduated from HS in May. The plan is to take him to Ireland, London & Paris for his gift leaving this Sunday night for his gift.

I’ve not been able to get my husband of 22 yrs to go out of the country w/ me though it was agreed we both wanted to travel internationally when we married.

I’ve planned the whole trip. eSIM, hotels close to train station, train schedule, luggage size/weight, hotels, everything. I like the planning & I asked for help multiple times & didn’t get it.

11 days ago my husband seriously injured himself doing a sport he is passionate about. I like the sport as well & leaned into it during our marriage.

He is still recovering and his doctor is advising him against flying to due possible complications.

We couldn’t realistically reschedule this trip until summer 2027. I’m tired of waiting. I feel guilty but also pissed. This has taken YEARS to get to this point. AITA if I go ahead with the travel plans w/ myself & child? I’m very strongly leaning yes.

My 63 yo husband had a waterski accident Sat & broke 8 ribs. Blood work is showing PLT of 1820. I’ve been researching and would be very surprised if he doesn’t have ET. Results of JAK2 tests pending. He doesn’t seem to have any symptoms. Was anyone else asymptomatic & if so how did your dr think to do a platelet test?