First time playing at a sex lounge and chickened out
As the title reads my husband and I recently went to a sex lounge for the first time but chickened out and left. We spoke prior to going in what our rules are which was that we’re not doing anything with anyone else we’re just there to explore and experience everything and to play with each other. Only after paying the entry fee and walking around we realized that we’re the only couple and I am the only female. There is about 10 or so other men besides my husband. Nevertheless after while I sit on the bed in the darkest corner and my husband starts to eat me out, he’s doing all the things but for some reason it only feels good and not great .. I can’t cum. My husband realizes and asks me if I’m good I say I am good I just am nervous and I ask to suck him off. He pulls his dick out of his pants and he’s completely flaccid and laughs and says he guesses he’s nervous too. I then try to suck his dick , lick his balls , nibble his thighs and nada. I panic that I can’t get him hard and I’m too nervous to let him eat me out again. I panic and say let’s go so we pack up and leave, still horny we then head to a nearby adult store booth and fucked while letting two guys watch. I am thinking it’s because there was a bunch of men just jerking off to us only we felt as if there was a bunch of pressure to put on a performance? Did anyone else have this issue of not being able to cum or get hard during play? Is there maybe other steps we should be taking before attending a sex club again?