u/Comprehensive-Gur273

I have been getting swollen gums for almost a year now and has been seeing a dentist since then. A really terrible thing is that the dentist kept telling me to follow the proper hygiene and which I had been sincerely following for over a year now and still they keep coming back even after he does cleaning and everything and he still hasn’t really explained to me what’s the root cause. So I changed dentist recently after the swelling came back on the new side this time. The new dentist said he’s gonna refer me to a gum specialist and took panorama xray finally for once! Wisdom tooth was okay but he said let’s take it out and deep clean the surrounding area and let’s see if that improves. How come everyone is just telling me to be a ginue pig and keep experimenting without giving at least a clear explanation to what is going on in the first place ? So I removed wisdom teeth 5 days ago and since last few weeks observing stains getting on. I am so worried about the stains as well. I don’t smoke . Sometimes drink coffee but rinse my mouth immediately with water after any acidic drink consumption. I brush my teeth twice daily. Use picketers after every meal ( was told my my previous dentist) and was using alcohol free mouthwash rinse in diluted form with water flosser before going to bed for about a couple of weeks until my new dentist asked to stop. Thankfully!

I m just so worried! Feels like crying every time my mind revisits those events/consultations with no fruitful outcome instead progression of disease and now this stain. It’s terrifying me. Can someone pls advise who helps cin these matters in detail. Maybe I am just dumb to not know anything but I am willing to try more 😞😞😥😥